HOME IS AS CLOSE AS A ROBIN'S NEST

AUGUST 22, 2010...A LIFE CHANGING DAY IN MY LIFE

2010-08-21T15:15:00.002-04:00

Thirty years ago, Mr. T and I met for the first time. Little did I know that morning when I awoke would that day in history hold one of the most profound moments in my life. My blue eyes were only hours away from connecting with the most spectacular brown eyes I'd ever seen. The love that we share 30 years later is still as fresh and new as that warm August night when our lives' paths first crossed. When I kiss his sweet lips, it is still as if I am kissing him for the very first time.

The song, Love Story, by Taylor Swift has become a bit of a hilarious joke around our home. Each time the first few notes of the song come on the radio, Ashley exclaims, "Oh, no, here we go again!" See, I have pretty much created my own lyrics to the song, and I guess you could say I use each of those opportunities to show off my semi-song writing skills, kind of like semi-homemade!

Anyways, I've decided to post the lyrics as I sing them, based on our love story. I had attended a Sunday school class party with a friend that night at another member's home, and we were all standing out on the front porch when Mr. T first came into my view. Once we entered the house and Mr. T went to make his way across the room, I tripped him! He tells people, "I've been falling ever since."

We were both young when I first saw you.
I close my eyes, and the flashback starts,
I'm standing there,
On the front porch in summer air.

I see the headlights, see you pull up the driveway.
See you trip your way through the crowd,
And say, "Hello".
Little did I know,

That you were Romeo,
You were driving a fast car
And my daddy said, "Stay away from Juliet,"
And I was crying on the telephone,
Begging you, "Please don't go."

And I said,
"Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.
I'll be waiting, all that's left to do is run.
You be the prince, and I'll be the princess,
It's a love story, baby, just say, 'yes'."

So I sneak up to the library to see you,
We keep quiet, 'cause we're dead if he knew,
So close your eyes,
Escape this town for a little while.

'Cause you were Romeo,
I was verrrry young,
And my daddy said, "Stay away from Juliet."
But you were everything to me,
I was begging you, "Please don't go."

And I said,

"Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.
I'll be waiting, all that's left to do is run.
You be the prince, and I'll be the princess,
It's a love story, baby, just say, 'yes'."

"Romeo, save me, they're trying to tell me how to feel.
This love is difficult, but it's real.
Don't be afraid, he's just got a big bark.
It's a love story, baby, just say, 'yes'."

Well, I got tired of waiting,
Wondering if you would ever marry me.
My faith in you was fading,
When you kissed me by the white Christmas tree.

And I said,

"Romeo, save me, I've been feeling so alone.
I keep waiting for you, but you never ask.
Is this in my head,
I don't know what to think."

You knelt to the carpet,
And pulled out a ring and said,
"Marry me, Crystal, you'll never have to be alone.
I love you, and that's all I really know.
Don't break the bank when you pick out a white dress."
It's a love story, baby, just say, 'yes'."

We were both young when I first saw you...

I am so thankful for this man in my life. Even though I was only 14, and it was a long 7 years until we were married, it was worth the wait, and without hesitation I can say I would do it all again!!!

FOODIE FRIDAY - TRYING MY HAND AT HOMEMADE FONDANT

2010-07-22T20:23:00.003-04:00

Hello all you fellow bloggers. It's been a loooong time since I've joined Foodie Friday. It's not that I don't cook often, I just don't take the time to take pics. The recipe and cake that I share today were so labor intensive though, that not photographing was absolutely not an option...besides it was my baby's 15th birthday celebration! That's right, Miss Ashley turned 15 on March 21, which also means she was eligible for her learner's permit. Sooo, with that said, the only thing I've been eating much of lately is Valium...LOL. I'm TOTALLY kidding...come on loosen up.

Anyway, 'bout the cake. She had wanted a multi-tier cake and wanted fondant. In the past I've had the privilege almost every year as being summoned as the baker for this grand occasion, and this year was no different. Admittedly, I did question the multi-tier part as I was listening closely to her plan unfold. Never fear though, I've yet to balk at such a special privilege, so once again, I went to task. I began googling frantically for weeks for pics, hoping to get her to commit to a style. Then, I decided, in pro-baker fashion, we would have a consultation. Finally, we made some headway. She decided on a theme...FLAMINGOS nonetheless. Let's see, multi-tier, uh, fondant, and, uh, flamingos, uh, and can you sort of make it match the plates and napkins. Oh sure, baby girl, you're mammy is "Super Mama!"

Fast forward to the scene the next morning..."Dear Lord, I know when you chose Ashley for me, and me for Ashley, there was a very special reason, and except on this and maybe one other rare occasion, I've never questioned it, but dear Lord, did you hear her? She wants multi-tier, fondant, and flamingos, and she does NOT want me to use any "plastic" decorations. Uh, Lord, if I understand that correctly, she wants me to make those feathery creatures by hand out of some sort of pastry material I've never even held in my hand. Now, uh, back to the questioning part. You do remember that I'm the little girl who was served homemade biscuits on a daily basis, yet has never mastered the art of biscuit making as of her up and coming 44th birthday? Do you also remember, that my earthly father, "King of Chicken and Dumplings," closes his ears when he hears that I use "pre-made frozen dumplings?" Do you also remember that at the age of 44, I've never been able to successfully make a pie crust? I know, Lord, that I can throw down a good meal with the best of southern gals, but for whatever the reason, pastry, doughy type thingies are not my specialty." With all my fears and shortcomings on the table, we hashed it out, and I left, as usual, feeling as if I could accomplish this task just to make my baby girl's grand day even more special.

In like personality, I set out to do a test run on the cake, at least just 1-tier with the fondant. First, I purchased the Wilton fondant...BAD IDEA! At least for my taste buds, it was horrible, and I don't even want to discuss the price! What to do? GOOGLE TO THE RESCUE, once again :-)

Apologies, but I have not listed the recipe here. I, however, am including a link to the website which I found, which basically saved the day. There is no way to type in all that I learned from this lady's site in order to produce a halfway eye-pleasing cake which also pleased the taste buds. I can 100% say that I recommend this site for instructions, but most of all for the recipe of her easy marshmallow fondant! It was a labor intensive cake, and the fondant is tricky to roll out to an acceptable yet workable thickness, but the end result was well worth it. Another benefit...the cost; very basic ingredients at a minimal cost versus the store-bought, pre-made fondant. Here's the link to the website: http://whatscookingamerica.net/PegW/Fondant.htm

Now, see for yourself. Before you judge though, I admit that the cake is not perfect, but I was tickled pink, uh, blue, with it. Look on, you'll see what I'm talking about.

This is the only picture which shows a little bit of the plate, which, remember, she wanted to match the cake...PLEASE!

For the top flowers, I also used a basic flower-shaped cookie cutter in 2 different sizes.

Ahh, of course, the flamingos. My first plan was to roll the fondant and cut them out by hand with a very sharp knife...not a good idea for a beginner. To think my husband had to drive back to Greensboro, 30 minutes away, to our local Williams-Sonoma, not to mention 4 hours before the party was to begin, to get the flamingo cookie cutter at 0.99 which I had passed up on no less than 3 occasions in the weeks leading up to this event. Oh, how he loves me!

Although not perfect, it tasted delicious, and for the buttercream frosting base under the fondant, I added my usual secret trick which leaves everyone wondering about the mystery FLAVOR...hint! No vanilla in my buttercream. One of her friends has even tried to twist my arm to make her one of these cakes for her birthday, but sorry, sweetheart, with 2 bad disks in my back, I save these ambitious rarities for once a year for my own sweet darling!

I so appreciate each of you stopping by. I hope you've enjoyed the pics, and please take the humor lightheartedly. I don't really question why my sweet Ashley was placed in my life. I love her dearly, and this was all in good fun, although all events were real and the people are true characters.

One last thing, please click on the link above to Gollum's blog so that you can view all the other wonderful recipes shared this week. P.S. As is suggested by "Gollum," please have a pen and notepad handy to write recipes on...you will need them.

TABLESCAPE THURSDAY - ORANGEY INDEED

2010-07-21T23:55:00.000-04:00

It's a celebration. Welcome to Home Is As Close As a Robin's Nest. Thank you for visiting. Today, I'm joining Susan at Between Naps On the Porch for Tablescape Thursday, which just happens to be Susan's 100th Tablescape Thursday! Congratulations, Susan! Thank you for once again hosting this fun event. Please visit the link to Susan's blog to enjoy many more beautiful table settings this week. I promise you will be inspired!

Today, I'm sharing a tablescape I put together a couple of months back but have failed to share. Life has been busy. The inspiration for the tablescape was actually the dessert which is a Kraft foods cherry Jell-O recipe with a cream cheese base.

Placemats: Marshall's (summer 2009)
White Dishes: Gibson (Big Lots 2009)
Orange base plate and cups: Home Goods (spring 2009)
Silverware: ??? (They're over 15 years old and I think I purchased at Wal-Mart. I remember liking the 3-pronged forks)
Salt and Pepper: (Target Birds...remember these cuties)
Vase/Ceramic Pitcher: Michael's
Faux Flowers: A shop in Blowing Rock (purchased many years ago)
Orange stemware: Pier 1 (probably 5 or 6 years back)

RECIPE: Cherry Orange Delight (click on link: http://www.kraftrecipes.com/recipes/cherry-orange-delight-61213.aspx)

Thank you so much for stopping by. I hope you've enjoyed viewing this table setting. Please remember to visit the link above to Between Naps On the Porch and join in more of the fun. Praying you and yours have a blessed day!

Missing The Grandeur of Spring Peonies - Another Exquisite Gift From God

2010-07-20T13:22:00.001-04:00

While strolling down the side of my home this morning, I quickly spotted the 2 green shrubs, which just a very few short weeks ago, were showcasing some of the season's most splendid blooms. There are few flowers which boast the old-fashioned elegance and fragrance of a peony. They remind me of a time when my father started his in an old Ball canning jar on our kitchen cabinet from a cutting a neighbor had given him. That same little cutting, now nearly 30 years later, never fails to emerge in the spring as a massive display of grandeur.

A single cut peony in a vase can fill a room with a magnificent aroma, not to mention a breathtaking sight. During spring you will often find peonies in almost every room of my home.

I sure wish a variety could be developed that bloomed all summer, but also understand the delicateness of the bloom could not survive the heat here in the sunny, humid south.

Just a couple of pics from Mother's Day lunch...

Yeah, yeah, I know, it's no peony. With all the eye candy, I couldn't resist giving you a tease for your tastebuds. While browsing my peony pics I found a pic of this Luscious Lemon Roll with fresh strawberries in my Mother's Day pic folder...YUMMY!

Praying you have a blessed day!

Tabletop Tuesday and Tablescape Thursday - Bunny Easter Table

2010-03-16T12:04:00.002-04:00

Welcome everyone. Today I'm linking to Tabletop Tuesday @ A Stroll Thru Life, hosted by Marty. I'll also be linking later in the week to Tablescape Thursday @ Between Naps On The Porch, hosted by Susan. Thanks to both these ladies for hosting these fun weekly events that we all look forward to participating in or simply viewing others' creativity.

Today I'll share a tabletop/tablescape I created by "shopping the house." Nothing was purchased specifically for this table. The dishes are the "Gollum's China" purchased at Big Lots last year.

The lime green chargers were a wonderful find from last year, as well, 0.99 cents at Goodwill.

The bunny ornaments were purchased after Easter last year at Big Lots...clearance, of course. They are a rubbery consistency, and I believe their original purpose to be for an Easter tree. They each had a hook in them between the 2 ears with a ribbon attached, both of which I removed, but can easily be replaced. Look closely at the bottom of the little bunny. I bet you could write in someone's name and use these as name/placecards. There seems to be plenty of room to write.

The daisies were previously in my daughter's room, but had since been placed in "Crystal's Goody Closet" waiting to be repurposed...wahla! The glasses are from the same Goodwill trip when I purchased the chargers. I added multi-colored sugar crystals.

Yellow napkins and crystal napkin rings.

Plenty of room to write on this little guy!

Princess House crystal candleholders. The bunny candles were given to me by my MIL many, many years ago. I'm sure she wondered why she never saw them. I've never used them until now. They were perfect. I had almost forgotten I had them stored away.

Okay, this is a re-run from my chocolate duck tablescape last Easter.

A large glass vase filled with grass and colorful plastic eggs.

The little purple bunny has a mate on the other side of the table in green...also purchased on clearance last year from Big Lots.

I so enjoyed putting this table together on a whim last evening. It's been a while since I've done a tablescape, and I had almost forgotten how much I enjoy them. Thanks for stopping by, and please be sure and visit Marty and Susan at the links provided above to see all the other delightful entries.

MISS ASHLEY LIKES LIME GREEN AND PINK

2010-03-09T09:29:00.001-05:00

Welcome to Tabletop Tuesday, hosted by sweet Miss Marty of A Stroll Thru Life. Please visit Marty to view all the other participants' entries for this week's event. This is my first participation in Tabletop Tuesday.

With temps approaching 70 today, I was in the mood for something bright and cheery, and these days I don't have to look far for bright and cheery. About a month ago Miss Ashley ~~coersed~~ (more like batted her eyelashes and said, "Please, Daddy.") Mr. T into painting her room, NO LESS THAN NEON lime green (sunglasses required)! More about the room re-do in an upcoming Met Monday post. After painting the room and rearranging her furniture, she finally needed Mom's help :-) She realized she needed to spruce up and rearrange some of her accessories. Thus, the inspiration for this post. One of the areas we re-worked was her nightstand. She had all the items in her room already, they were just in other places or grouped with other items. After a little dilly dallying with various items, we came up with the following.

This pic shows the reality of the lime green. We chose mostly pink accessories against the

backdrop of the paint color.

These beauties have me longing for fresh-cut flowers from the garden...soon, very soon.

Thanks for dropping in. I hope you've enjoyed your visit, and if you're like me...you're longing for spring! A little reminder...please visit Marty at the link provided above; you'll be glad you did :-)

BREATHE, A PERSONAL SONG FAVORITE

2010-03-01T15:38:00.000-05:00

If Mr. T and I have a so-called "favorite" song, or just one that especially touches our hearts, it would have to be Breathe by Michael W. Smith. It has been a fav for several years now, but still each time we play it or hear it on the radio, it somehow manages to grip our hearts in an almost vulnerable sense. The music is tranquil, but the lyrics possess an irrefutable connotation. To me, it parallels the acknowledgement of ones desperate/lost state without Christ, yet living life trusting in Christ provides a wonderful respite from that same depravital state and the exhaustive, depleted state a person can experience when pursuing life apart from God.

I move the music around on my blog quite often, so if you are reading this post and have never heard the song, please take the time to scroll down to the bottom of the page and in the playlist you can scroll down through the music and find the song. My prayer is that it provides a wonderful blessing to your life today!

METAMORPHOSIS MONDAY - SPARE CLOSET MAKEOVER

2010-02-21T14:25:00.002-05:00

Welcome friends to Metamorphosis Monday hosted by Susan at Between Naps on the Porch. After visiting here, please take time to visit Susan at the link provided and view all the other metamorphoses shared this week.

This week I'm sharing a recent spare closet re-do and organization. It was another project from one of the snowy weekends we have had in central NC over the past month or so. As you will quickly notice in the pics below, this closet was anything but organized. The closet serves as storage for dishes, various Christmas items, craft items, table linens, etc. It's pretty much become the "Crystal catch all" closet. Mr. T had offered multiple times to add more shelves, but I wasn't sure what I wanted to do with the closet. It seemed that after Christmas, the closet was headed on a progressively downhill course to the point where I finally decided I'd give in to some added shelves just to get a handle on it temporarily.

YIKES...it's even worse than I remembered.

Ashamedly, I admit the closet bordered on being a case of "domestic negligence." I'm a little embarassed right now. This closet is not typical of the chick who cannot even concentrate enough to work at her "work from home" job if her home is out of sorts. So, I'm so glad I took the time, although forced by weather, to do something about this closet. I am so enjoying it! There is just a gratifying feeling when I go to open the doors now and they don't get hung on some object, or even better something hit me right square in the eyes, falling from the top shelves.

Now, various crafting items are grouped together in their respective storage containers...

Complete with labels for easy identification :-)

Tableclothes are now neatly folded and stored.

Napkins and napkin rings are stored in this 3-drawer storage unit and labeled...yippee!

I so appreciate each of stopping in and hope you have enjoyed your visit. This was a closet re-do on a whim, but overall it turned out fantastic and I'm finding it to be so much more user friendly! Take care and please remember to visit Susan's blog at the link provided above where you will find all the other participants for this week's Met Monday! Until next time, be sweet and don't procrastinate any longer if you, too, have one of those secretly "domestically neglected" areas in your home!

TOBY MAC - "CITY ON OUR KNEES"

2010-02-11T21:18:00.002-05:00

While on my daughter's blog recently, I heard the song, City On Our Knees, by Toby Mac. I don't know if it was because of the headphones or exactly what happened, but the profound message of this song resonanted within my heart and soul with tenderness, urgency, and an utter abandonment to anything else going on in my life at that particular moment in time. After searching the lyrics, I decided I would do a post on this song because the message is so beautiful and true.

It starts with "If you gotta start somewhere why not here. If you gotta start sometime why not now?" Through the fog there is hope in the distance, from cathedrals to third world missions, Love will fall to the earth like a crashing wave."

Those lyrics are so true. Why not start now living for Christ? There is hope in the distance, yet closer than you may think. Through all the fog of this life, the misunderstandings, the sorrow, guilts, regrets, pain; all the very things we struggle to understand in our society, we can find a very real and very present hope in our Savior, Jesus Christ. And I promise, His love one day is going to fall to the earth like a crashing wave! And when we do step across, there will be nothing other than perfect Love!

This, however, is where the song begins to transport me. I simply close my eyes and allow His very Spirit to penetrate my soul. He sings, "Tonight's the night, for the sinners and the saints, two worlds collide in a beautiful display. It's all up tonight, when we step across the line, we can sail across the sea, to a city with one King, a city on our knees, a city on our knees.

Allow yourself to close your eyes and listen to the lyrics, just picture it. I know you probably have before, but just give it a try. You can actually reset the song to play at the bottom of this page on the playlist player; simply click on the top song and it will start from the beginning. Imagine the city on our knees, that city with just one King! No more of this life's pain, confusion, loneliness, or doubt. A city completely sinless…perfect in every way, created especially for you and I as believers. The song, I Can Only Imagine, is an equally beautiful song, but that song speaks of whether we will dance for Jesus, or whether we will simply fall to our knees, be unspeakable, etc. But, just really let this thought penetrate your God-created mind…He is so worthy we may find it impossible to do anything other than bow in total adoration and praise to the King!

The next verse states, "Tonight could last forever, we are one choice from together, as family, we're family, you and me. Dear friend, I may not know you, or you may be a very close friend or family member, but I just want you to know that the very night spoken of in this song, Christ's return, can last forever for you, and we are or once were one choice from together as God's family. If you've never considered accepting Christ as your Savior, I so pray that you would humbly consider it being your choice!

I cherish each of your visits. I love each and every one of you, even if I don't know you. If you have unanswered questions, please feel free to leave them in the comment section, and my promise is to respond with a very real answer!

"SO LONG INSECURITY" - A NEW READ FROM BETH MOORE

2010-02-08T09:28:00.005-05:00

Last week I noticed on my blog roll under the LPM, Living Proof Ministries, blog that Beth Moore's newest book had been released, So Long Insecurity...you've been a bad friend to us. So, while at a local bookstore over the weekend, I purchased a copy. This is a book every woman from every walk of life would benefit from reading. It so accurately portrays insecurity for what it is and the havoc unchecked insecurity can wreak upon our lives. Personally, I believe there is at least one excerpt from the book that every woman can relate to, probably multiple. Insecurity is an issue that women are struggling with at an increasingly alarming rate. I believe it's because of past experiences, but also from today's unrealistic societal pressures placed on a woman in a wide gamut of areas including, but definitely not limited to, beauty, profession, motherhood, and marriage. The mentality of "I can have it all, do it all, and be all to all people" will surely leave a woman who buys into that line of thinking, empty and insecure.
The book also contains a section where Beth gives excerpts from men after asking for their input regarding their insecurities.
I personally have many hopes for my daughter and pray daily that she will allow God to enable her to live the kind of life and be the kind of woman He would be pleased with, but I also know that insecurity threatens her on every front of her dear little life, even at the tender age of 14. So, as her mom, I am reading this book for my own benefit, but also in order to pass on to her the insight and wisdom to be gained therefrom,from a Biblical perspective, to strengthen her against this vicicous trap that satan would love to snarl her path with.
Blessings to you and yours...God is so good!!!

A CROSSROAD, A VALLEY, AND A MOUNTAIN

2010-02-05T09:59:00.003-05:00

A tale of a family, bound by love, saturated in tradition, wrapped in the arms of a mighty Savior: Six feet planted firmly, led by two feet very capable and willing to lead; side-by-side two very smaller feet but two feet very much willing to follow; and yet followed by yet two larger feet in size (smaller in experience and wisdom) and longing for love and direction from the other four. Six hands, two very strong and protective; two much smaller and fragile yet an obvious gift from God for the well being of her family; and then two more very small hands; all six hands clasped together in unison. Three hearts, two that first lept eagerly 30 years ago when they first met but not bound together until seven years later on June 6, 1987, bound by a vow, an unwillingness to surrender to the world's here today/gone tomorrow, I changed my mind, idea of commitment. A love that has seen joy, happiness, sorrow, suffering, trials, and temptations, a love that has grown deeper and more meaningful with each. The third, a tender, vulnerable heart, conceived in love by the first two on June 9, 1994, woven in a tiny womb by the Master, brought forth from my very body on March 21, 1995. All three have witnessed God's amazing power, all three recently brought through the crossroads of decision where they entered the valley and six knees knelt in prayer and direction, and would soon arrive at the foot of the mountain we'll call Obedience. Are there questions? Yes siree. Are there doubts? To some extent. Are there uncertainties? I can't begin to innumerate those. Still, these three souls have one desire: To surrender and follow Him and allow His will to be far above our own. To live and follow His plan for our life...not a path He chose for someone else.

I know the song, "The Climb," is a secular song, but it so depicts this chapter and journey in our life. It really is not about what is waiting on the other side. See, it's not about us and our desires. It's the character to be built and the wisdom gained from that journey to the other side. It's about being all that we can be through Christ!

ME LIKES WILLIAMS-SONOMA TOWELS AND DISHCLOTHS

2010-02-02T12:00:00.000-05:00

A quick post to share what I think is a great product and well worth the money. About 5 years ago I purchased my first 4-pack of kitchen towels from Williams-Sonoma. I admit they were more pricey than your typical kitchen towel. I don't remember the exact price, but I think they were a couple dollars cheaper than now, but don't write that in stone...they could have been the same. The point is, these towels are so worth every penny. I have had other towels during this time that have worn out in no time. These WS towels are still in very good shape. Admittedly, mine have seen the Clorox bottle more than once, but they are not frayed and have no holes. Another great part is that they are so absorbent. After 5 years, these towels are still holding up wonderfully. Yes, they are a tad faded from the Clorox, and the colors are not completely true to the original colors, but in no way are badly faded. I'm sure WS does not directly advocate bleaching these towels, I'm not sure on that, but some stains have simply required it over the years, plus there is the disinfecting peace-of-mind that bleach provides me with. My towels are red and white striped, yellow and white striped, and then one pack was green and yellow striped. They are also more of what I would call a waffle-weave pattern, whereas the new ones have a smoother finish.

These are pics of my towels that have been used and washed daily for 5 years. As you can see, they're in great shape. The green and yellow striped ones are the oldest but still aging well.

Check out the new bright and vibrant colors for spring.

Coordinating dishclothes.

These are similar to the green and yellow ones I have.

Here's to all you who heart the color orange...I know there are a few of you in blogland.

A 4-pack of the towels are $18.
An 8-pack of dishcloths are $16.
And for those of you who do not care for the WS logo, you can get a 4-pack of the towels without the logo for $16. Happy shopping!

I won't be purchasing any because I don't need them...a testament to the quality! Of course, I need to provide a link for your shopping convenience, or just so you can view all the other eye candy Williams-Sonoma offers http://www.williams-sonoma.com/shop/homekeeping/dish-cloths-towels/?cm_type=gnav.

METAMORPHOSIS MONDAY - BATHROOM PAINT PROJECT

2010-01-31T18:53:00.001-05:00

Welcome to Met Monday, hosted by Susan @ Between Naps On The Porch. Thanks for stopping in to visit. Be sure and visit Susan at the link above to see all the other metamorphoses! It just might be the inspiration you need to begin that little project that has been tugging at you.

Here in central NC, we had been forecast to receive anywhere from 5 to 12 inches of snow this weekend. Earlier in the week, I decided if the forecast held together, that Friday evening before the snow began, I would head to Lowe's to get the paint needed for a bathroom I've put off painting for some time. I originally shared this bathroom metamorphosis last spring on Met Monday, and even though the bathroom was "complete," we had never been quite pleased with the ho-hum pretty much white paint job we chose. When the bathroom was originally remodeled, we simply could not settle on a color, and so as Thanksgiving drew close that year, we went with an off-white color, which totally washed the room out.

That's where Friday evening comes. We head out about 5 p.m. to have Mexican food and the snow was just beginning. I had asked Mr. T if we could stop by Lowe's and pick up the paint, and seeing he likes to ride around in the snow when it first begins, he agreed! By the way, it's a great time to be at Lowe's...it was like ghost town, except for the folks buying bags of Ice Melt.

Below are a couple of before pics...pretty ho-hum.

So, what did we spend Saturday doing? Check it out.

I must admit, it is still growing on me; it's a drastic change in contrast. To be honest, it turned out just a smidge darker than I had originally desired, but I've agreed to give it a week or two and see how I feel about it then.

Not bad for a quart of paint. The thing about being snowed in is, think ahead, get supplies and make use of that time!

Thanks for visiting. I hope you've enjoyed the before and after. I'm heading over to Susan's to check out all the other participants for this Met Monday. Praying you have a blessed and safe week!

STRAWBERRY SHORTCAKE

2010-01-22T20:41:00.001-05:00

After dinner tonight, Mr. T voiced his desire for a strawberry cake. Being the quick cook that he is, his idea of a strawberry cake is the artificially-flavored, box-mix strawberry cake, followed by a giant dolllop of that artificial strawberry stuff they call icing. If there is a box-mix cake that I detest, it would have to be the strawberry one. Maybe it's just me, but my taste buds scream, "Take cover...incoming artificial flavors!"

Besides, we didn't happen to have one in the pantry, not that we would, seeing as I detest them. I shared with him there was a recipe on the Bisquick box for a strawberry shortcake recipe that I'd been wanting to try. I thought I had most of the ingredients, and after checking the pantry and fridge, quickly discovered I did. I had to twist his arm, but he agreed to give it a try and forego his own empty attempt to satisfy his strawberry-craving.

Quickly, he grabbed the frozen strawberries from the freezer out in the garage. Our good friends own a local strawberry farm and, in fact, Ms. Ashley works there and helps out during strawberry season, so we always put up strawberries to enjoy in the winter.

I whipped up the recipe for the "cake" portion, which actually is prepared in individual biscuit portions. All is running smooth...that is until I realize I did not have any Cool Whip. Mind shifts to that think fast mode...ah, ha, but I do have heavy whipping cream. Much to the amazement of Mr. T and Miss Ashley, with the help of a little vanilla flavoring and a couple teaspoons of sugar added to that whipping cream, and the help of that nice little contraption so fondly referred to as a "mixer," we had whipped topping in no time, that is minus the artificial flavoring! I'm beginning to see a trend with this post. No, no, I cannot digress, this is solely about the Friday evening dessert.

After about 12 minutes, we had beautiful cat-head sized cake/biscuits which would form the base for our individual strawberry shortcakes. I have to say, it was worth the effort. We all 3 actually agreed that we liked these better than the angel food cake version of strawberry shortcake.

You can judge for yourself...pretty yummy looking, huh?

Thanks for stopping by. I've really got to go now...there was 1 left and I hear 4 little feet making their way to the kitchen as I type. Hey, I was the cook...shouldn't I get the leftovers???

I pray that each of you have a blessed and fulfilling Friday evening. Until next time...good night sweeties.

One last thing...I have to give a great big thanks to Ingram's Strawberries for the delicious berries!!!

FRED AND GINGER WANNABES AND A QUESTION FOR YOU

2010-01-16T19:20:00.022-05:00

Have you ever had a dream or a secret little desire that, for varying reasons, you've never pursued? Perhaps at some point you began an endeavor, but due to life circumstances you had to end it prematurely. Come on bloggers, I suspect there are innumerable folks that at some time have had that puffy little cloud-like dream that drifted around in their minds. I'd like to hear from you with details of what your detoured or undeveloped dream may be. So, leave a message at the bottom. It will be fun to see all the diverse answers. Even if it is completely off the wall; here's your chance, but please keep it G-rated.

Below, I'll share one of my own, that is, in case you haven't guessed from the title of this post.

For me, a picture speaks a thousand words! There you have it...I want to learn ballroom dancing. I know there are mixed beliefs about dancing, but I'm not writing this to debate religion, so please, hold those posts for another time. I'm not talking about that hip-grinding, tasteless dance that plagues our society. Rather, the graceful seamless movement so effortlessly depicted by the very famous "Fred and Ginger."

The very sight of the long flowing gowns worn by Rogers while in the arms of Astaire transport my mind into an almost wanderlust state. They were simply alluring to watch. I must confess though, it's not completely an unpursued dream of mine/ours. A couple of years back, Mr. T and I bought a promotional package at our local Fred Astaire Dance Studio. We took lessons for a couple of months, and I have to say, we had a blast! I was skeptical whether Mr. T would embrace the idea wholeheartedly; however, I was pleasantly surprised to find that he enjoyed it as much as me, if not more so!

Honestly, that is what brought about this post. Earlier in the week while in my closet I spotted those lonesome golden heels that once transported me into "a fairytale-like state." Don't get me wrong, I don't live in fairytale land, and I love my life perfectly as it is, it's just that ballroom dancing just happens to be my little dream.

As the lessons progressed, the reality quickly surfaced that the time requirements, as well as the cost of the lessons were going to be obstacles for the present time in our lives. It is suggested that to progress adequately in ballroom dancing, a couple should strive to take a minimum of 3 lessons per week. Mind you, we both were working full-time, serving in various ministries at our church, and raising a 12-year-old whom we also home-schooled. We simply had to do the responsible thing and place our new hobby on hold...hopefully not indefinitely.

Mr. T and I have great hope that once our daughter is older, perhaps in college, we will be able to continue. To us, it is a wonderful hobby that we both can enjoy, and talk about romantic... The exercise benefits were an added surprise as well. For now though, we are content and extremely happy with applying our focus to raising our daughter. She is now back in school and playing high school basketball, so time constraints are even greater. We are also extremely willing to apply those funds which on her tuition to a Christian school, which we are sure will reap far greater benefit to all of our lives.

Like I said though, we are hopeful someday to continue this romantic venture. Until then, I will keep Mr. T's black dance shoes polished and my golden dance heels in safekeeping. Okay, it's now your turn; I will treasure hearing all your dreams and hopes...

HAPPY NEW YEAR

2010-01-01T19:40:00.003-05:00

It's almost 8 p.m. on the first day of a brand new year. Miss Ashley and I have hunkered down by the gas logs, and Mr. T is studying. For me, the largest part of the day was spent packing up all the indoor Christmas decorations. Mr. T and Miss Ashley were busy packing away all the outside decorations. December came and passed with a speed I do not ever remember. My mind wanders back to how older family members used to always say, "The older you get, the faster it will seem time passes." I really did not fully understand what they meant; however, I am beginning to have a greater appreciation. In looking back at my blog, I realized I only posted once. In fact, I had actually intended to post more of the tablescapes spoken of in that post, but as you can see...it didn't happen :-(. I do wish I had taken the time to share more of our Christmas traditions and posted photos. Some things I wish I had taken the time to photograph. Ashley managed to bake nearly 300 cookies to share with friends and teachers at school and packaged them in lovely tins and boxes. I'm not talking about pre-made cookie dough either. Each gift was also accompanied by a Christmas card with a personalized hand-written note. Talk about a proud mama! Did I manage to get pics...NOT! How does time pass so fast, and how do things get by us so fast? Are we truly a generation too busy for our own good? Our family, for sure, is busy. With Ashely involved with high school basketball this year, this year was even more busy. Then, there was the high school exam week, 2 weeks prior to Christmas. That week was a complete shut down. We devoted our evenings to dinner, studying, and early to bed. The flexibility of scheduling with homeschooling was sorely missed this past December. Even though the month passed with "to-do" items and "hope-to-do" items not being crossed off, it was a wonderful month. I am one who truly does not like living in the fist of regret, so you'll not catch me mourning over those things. The most precious of time was spent with the ones I love, often hurrying and preparing for one gathering to the next, but still together and, most importantly, ever mindful of the TRUE reason for the season...JESUS.

As we begin this brand new year, I realize time will seem to pass faster than ever, that there will be many things I wish to accomplish which will never materialize, places I wish to go that I will never lay eyes upon, and although I don't buy into all the New Year's resolution thingy...I do desire to improve in some areas. Those being as follows:

-To obsess less over things being so clean and organized at all times :-)
-Cook more
-Give more thanks
-Improve in the area of sending cards of comfort and encouragement
-Cook for families with illnesses, etc.
-Improve on seeing the glass as half full instead of half empty

There are various other things, but I figure I'll plan small, that way the fall won't be so hard! Most of all, I will do my best, seek God's guidance, and forgive myself for shortcomings.

Until my next post, my prayer is for a blessed New Year to you and yours!

TABLESCAPE THURSDAY - HOLIDAY HOSPITALITY DINNER TABLESCAPES

2009-12-03T11:42:00.022-05:00

Welcome to Tablescape Thursday, hosted by Susan @ Between Naps On The Porch. Thank you, Susan, for once again graciously hosting this very fun event. Please be sure and visit Susan...you will not want to miss her tablescape this week; it's absolutely fabulous!

Each year, our church hosts a Women's Holiday Hospital Dinner. Table hostesses are required to create a tablescape for 8 guests based on a Bible verse and create a theme based on that verse. Today, I'll start with my tablescape and then also share another lady's table. I will also be adding a couple each week through the month, so check back to see these gorgeous settings. We have some very talented and creative ladies.

The following is my table for this year. It is based on I Peter 1:7: That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ.

This next tablescape, is the artistry of Ms. Jennifer. I adore the colors of this table. Notice the snowflake she used under the clear plates...creative!

Thanks for visiting. It has been a pleasure to have your company. Remember to please visit Ms. Susan's blog at the link above. There you will be able to enjoy her spectacular tablescape as well as find the links to many, many more beautiful creations. Enjoy and Happy Tablescape Thursday!

The Perfect Fall Evening Dessert

2009-10-03T10:58:00.014-04:00

Nothing can complete a crisp fall evening any better than semi-homemade apple dumplings on the porch with a pot of fresh-brewed coffee.

I use these apple dumplings quite often from Pepperidge Farm. They are convenient and quick to prepare.

Fresh-ground, fresh-brewed coffee. Would you care for cream or sugar??

I simply brush the dumplings with egg whites and add sugar to give them the semi-homemade touch :-)

The serving platter and mugs were purchased at Home Goods last year on the clearance aisle. The bottom markings say, "Raymond Waites, Savannah, Certified International Corporation." I was able to get the serving platter, a large serving bowl, and 6 mugs.

A soft glowing candle adds to the ambiance of the evening.

The design on the dishes make them especially perfect for this time of year.

Warm, gooey center, sweet, crispy crusty....YUMMY!

Thank you so much for visiting. I certainly hope you have enjoyed your dumpling and coffee. Please know that I cherish each of your visits. I'm praying that you have a blessed and refreshing fall day!

IT'S FALL Y'ALL PARTY

2009-10-01T08:49:00.011-04:00

It's October 1st and time for, "It's Fall Y'all" party hosted by Rhoda @ Southern Hospitality. Earlier in the week, I shared a fall-inspired shelf I decorated. Today, I'm sharing another shelf in the bookcases in my den. Throughout the year, I have a basket here with greenery and I repurpose it at each holiday. This being fall/autumn, I added some fall floral picks, a bow, and a scarecrow.

An up close and personal of Mr. Scarecrow.

The fall bow

I know Life Savers are not typical fall candy, but the purple ones complimented the bow.

Thanks to Rhoda for hosting this fun event. Please visit her blog at the link above to see more great fall eye candy.

Also, thanks for stopping by; I greatly appreciate the visit. Praying you have a blessed fall season!

Fall Scene

2009-09-29T19:16:00.016-04:00

Hello everyone in Blogtown. I'm so enjoying the cooler temps and just the overall change in the air. It is so refreshing here in NC. Today was an absolutely beautiful day! Daily, I find myself dreaming of the fall scene...mums, scarecrows, pumpkins...everything fall! Very soon, I hope to enjoy a visit to our local farmer's market where, well, let's just put it this way, if you want it for fall, and you can't find it there, uh, you're out of luck :-)

The following is just a small little fall scene I put together this week on a shelf in our den.

Ok, for the little spooky-looking black tree. Well, I made this last year. I rounded up small limbs from the yard and spray painted them black. I then took a Citronella candle holder, wax still intact, spray painted it black, drilled holes in the wax and placed the small twigs in the wax. I then placed the Peep marshallow pumpkin heads on the ends. Now last year, I used Peep ghosts, but i didn't have any yet this year. I had the pumpkins left from last year. I plan to change out once I find some ghosts.

Here is a pic of the ghost tree from last year. I used this tree for a centerpiece. Sorry...it's almost cut out of the pic.

Thanks for stopping by. I hope you've enjoyed your visit. I will be posting more scenery from fall very shortly, so check back soon! Have a fantastic fall day!

TABLESCAPE THURSDAY - ANTIQUE GRAPPE

2009-09-29T18:18:00.028-04:00

Welcome to Tablescape Thursday, hosted by Susan @ Between Naps On The Porch. Thank you, Susan, for graciously and faithfully hosting this fun event.

Wow, it's been so long since I've posted a tablescape. While I was putting this one together, I was like a kid in a candy store. I had almost forgotten how much fun this was. This tablescape was inspired by my everyday Gibson dishes, Antique Grappa. If you were to eat dinner with me on any ordinary evening, these would be the dishes set before you. They've been faithful...they've even sustained a couple minor nicks and chips over the years. They are put through the dishwasher sometimes twice in one day. Overall, I've enjoyed them and wanted to share with you guys.

Here are a couple of aerial shots.

The glasses and pitcher are from Pier 1 from many moons ago.

I added these glass grape clusters purchased several years ago at Hobby Lobby. I simply twisted 2 sets together to make a multi-color bunch. I wish you could see these in person...pics don't do justice.

The dinner plate and the bowl are the Gibson Antique Grappa.

Although I have the Gibson salad plates, I decided to mix things up and use these solid gold salad plates I purchased at Garden Ridge many years ago. It looks as if they don't match in this pic, but really they do.

The charger-like plates are actually dinner plates, I believe. I purchased last fall at the Habitat for Humanity store for $7 (all 4). On the bottom of the plates, they still had the Home Goods price tags at $7 each.

Well folks, I hope you've enjoyed the Antique Grappa tablescape. I certainly enjoyed putting it together and sharing with you all.

I'm gonna scoot on over to Susan's now to take a peek at some of the other participant's tablescapes for this week. Please, also, remember to visit Susan at the link provided above.

Thank you so much for stopping by and taking the time to visit. Happy tablescapes!

NO TIME FOR MAKEUP

2009-09-26T11:46:00.007-04:00

Matthew 5:24 "Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way;

first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift."

You might be asking, "No time for makeup, uh, have you seen me without my makeup? Many of you, no, I have not. Others, I may have. Trust me, this is not to beat women down who wear makeup. I enjoy my concealer and highlighter as much as anyone, probably more! I want us to go much deeper than the superficial side of makeup. In fact, we will be exploring the noun form as well as the verb form, i.e., makeup and make up.

Think about the times in your life when you have LITERALLY had no time for makeup. In this sense and spelling, I'm referring to cosmetics in general. Think deeply on this…I'm not talking about the times you could have taken time to apply makeup but simply chose not to. I'm talking about those sudden jolts in our life: that dreaded phone call or that forceful knock upon our door when literally our call to action meant there was NO TIME FOR MAKEUP. You simply had to grab your purse and keys and go. There was no time to run to a mirror and check your looks. At those times in my life I have usually ended up finding myself face down in prayer to the point I feel an overwhelming desire to call upon that close friend or those persons whom I knew would go to prayer battle for my need, those persons I knew I could count on. Not only was there no time for makeup, it was the last thing on my mind. Suddenly, that superficial side of me no longer seemed important. I needed to call on those people whom I could trust to lift up my needs to God. I may have even wanted or needed them to come to my side, makeup or not.

The same term, "No Time For Makeup," can apply not only to our face, but also to our relationships. Only we need to change the term to "MAKE UP." Ahhh, what a difference a space makes. Now that same little word which sounds the same (the grammatical term is a homophone, same pronunciation, different meaning, different spelling) now takes on a different meaning. There are many definitions, but I want to focus in on one: To reconcile. It is now a verb…verbs require action.

It grieves my heart to see the competitiveness and deceptiveness between women these days. We live in a society where one of the most popular book lines among teenage girls is entitled, "The Clique." Some folks are allowing their daughters to watch movies entitled, "Mean Girls." I'll allow your imagination to focus on those titles and draw your own conclusions of their substance. I promise, this is one instance assumption will not steer you wrong. The truth is, this is not just Hollywood. This is what girls and women are living with everyday in our schools, workplaces, and homes (yes, sister against sister) It's sad isn't it? Even sadder, it's in our places of worship…that's right our churches. Women tearing women down. If I have caused grief to a friend in Christ, how in the world am I going to call upon that person to enter her prayer closet for me. Remember, I had no time for makeup! The matter is urgent! There is also no time for make up. If I need you, I certainly do not want to have to call you in my moment of darkness and hash out our grievances in order to reconcile.

Ladies, as Godly women we are called to show ourselves friendly. I do not expect you to develop deep, personal relationships with every woman you come in contact with; this is simply not possible. It is, however, not only possible, but it is our commandment from God to be respectful of other women, to be God-fearing, and to love everyone, not everything about them. He commands us not to hold grudges, to dissolve bitterness, and to set examples for those younger. Are we doing this ladies? If we as Christians conduct ourselves in this manner, then please tell me who in this world can we count on and trust?? If Godly women cannot expect one another to lend encouragement, friendship, and hospitality, we have reduced ourselves to act like those who are godless. We should be building one another up, not tearing one another down. Our lives are complicated enough. No matter what socioeconomic background we come from, we all have common issues. We are, after all, women, made by God himself. Ladies, there is a world full of dying people who do not know Jesus as their Savior. We do not have time to "make up" with one another. We need to be working together in edification of one another in order to win these lost souls. If the godless see us tearing one another down, bickering, and belittling one another, why in the world would they want to be part of this???? There is literally no time for make up with one another. There is time, however, to wake up and live the life God intended.

Most importantly, there is no time for spiritual makeup or make up. If all we ever do in our spiritual walk is put on our "spiritual makeup", take 2 steps forward and 3 steps backwards, where are we going? I think you can do the math on that. How superficial we tend to be at times. Ladies we need to render our hearts and minds to the Lord in prayer and service. Does that mean you will never slip, fail, or veer off course. Of course not, we are, after all, human. We can make a difference though. What if we were to take 50 steps forward, and only 5 steps backwards. Do the math on that…get the picture. Better yet, get the mindset, be ever mindful of your words and actions, they are, after all, a reflection of your heart! We will never be perfect, but there is no time for constantly having to make up with God. Yes, he is just to forgive us, and we are most definitely supposed to confess our sins, ask for forgiveness, and repent. Ahhh, that 6 letter word is where so many of us get a little side ways. We are supposed to confess and ask for forgiveness, but we are also supposed to repent. Repent means to "turn away." If we never turn away, we constantly spend our life like a truck stuck in mud spinning our wheels. Someone comes along and pulls us out, in our spiritual walk that someone being Jesus, and then we simply drive ourselves back into the mud again, only to be pulled out again, and again. If we spend our life in make up with God, we will never shake up or wake up anyone for Jesus.

Ladies, it doesn't matter how much makeup you apply to your face or your spiritual walk, God sees the true you….he knows your heart. We should not be wasting so much time in make up where God is concerned. We cannot continue spending our life in such superficial worship. If you are sincere about your relationship with Jesus and reaching a lost world, you will be of a mindset to take off your spiritual makeup and put a halt to all this make up that is going on.

Now, don't go saying that this woman wrote a devotion telling me I needed to stop wearing makeup. If that is what you are thinking, then right now you need to go to the very top and distinguish the 2 forms of this word, and then re-read the entire devotion. Makeup and make up are very different. As stated above, I love my beauty treatments. Makeup as in cosmetics is not a sin in and of itself, but it is sin when our lives become filled with all things superficial.

I guess you could say ladies, this is where the rubber meets the road, literally, we need to get of out our mud pits, mud slinging, and spiritual mud masks, and get to work for the Lord. There is a lost and dying world waiting on us. If I'm busy hiding behind my spiritual makeup and making up with you and the Lord my entire life, that dear lost soul I could have impacted may never "make up" with God.

AN EMOTION-FILLED WEEK IN REVIEW

2009-08-21T20:40:00.010-04:00

Whoa...it's been a while since I've posted. Life has been busy with the start of school. It seems I've just not been able to find the time to just sit down, be quiet, and write. Don't get me wrong...the thoughts have been overflowing from my mind and heart, I just haven't had the time to pen them.

It's Friday evening, and I find myself reflecting upon the events of the past week. Ashley started high school this week, and I must admit I've juggled a plethora of emotions, both sweet and bittersweet.

My mind continues to wander back to Tuesday morning...one of those mornings that will be forever etched in the recesses of my memory. Monday was the first day of school, and there was a lot of hustle and bustle of getting her settled into homeroom, taking in school supplies (a trunk full to be exact), and lots of other parents and children bustling about. Leaving the school Monday passed with relative ease, mostly I suppose from all the commotion.

Tuesday though, that's another story. It was one of those mornings that just felt different from the moment that my osteoarthritic feet (from earlier years of nonstop high-heel wearing) touched the soft carpet beneath them. There seemed to be no hesitation of that early-morning pain I usually have. No, this day, there was a different spring in my step. Tuesday was as typical as any other school morning as far as routine wise, but there was something different about my daughter that morning...I saw a very different little/big girl before me. After packing lunch, ironing her clothes, packing her gym bag, going over her homework checklist one last time, and assembling everything at the door, there my daughter appeared. I have to tell you...she took my breath. She seemed just extraordinarily different to me that morning. Her hair lay across the front of her shoulders in perfectly curled spirals...her skin even had an extra glow. More than that outward beauty, when she flashed that melt-mama's heart smile, I was reminded of the deeper inward beauty she possessed.

We arrived at school, and this being high school, the walk-ins are pretty much over, so Tuesday she requested to go through the drop-off line. This is where the day took a really different turn. As she exited the car and retrieved her bags, headed up the 10 or so steps into the building, it was as if she were moving in slow motion. The flashback from 9 years earlier on her first day of kindergarten, dressed in her plaid dress uniform with crisp white blouse, larger-than-life red bow in the top of her hair, Mary-Jane shoes and, of course, that Hello Kitty lunch bag, filled my mind like a deluge of water being released from a dam. What seemed like literally a flash of time had occurred. Here, August 18, 2009, I saw my now 14-year-old daughter's longer-than-life legs gracefully carrying her up each step to that school for a completely new journey. Like I said, it was like something out of a movie that is in slow motion. When she reached the top of the steps, she turned to the left and her highlighted hair swept across her shoulder in the air like strands of silk, and she flashed me one last "I love you Mom" smile and then entered the building. The emotions overwhelmed me...I had really not expected it. At the same time, Ashley had been playing the Miley Cyrus song, "The Climb." It just all came together so quickly...the memories, the here-and-now visual of her entering high school, and the music. As I drove away, I literally had to compose myself in order to be able to see to drive. I found myself weeping and missing her so badly. It had finally occurred to me that our home school era was over. I did, however, manage to pull it together and make it home.

Oh, but God is so good. He knows just what we need when we need it. My devotion that morning was on RECOGNIZING answered prayers and giving thanks for them. Now I know God understood my feelings that morning, but when I read that devotion, I realized I had nothing to cry about. First and foremost, I have no regrets where my baby girl is concerned. I have not done everything perfect, but I cannot say that I have a mountain of regret to deal with. Secondly, I dropped my daughter off at a school where Christ is the center of education. She entered the building being personally greeted by the administrator, a Godly man, who just happens to open the door for the students in the morning. Is everything perfect within those walls? I dare say so! It is, however, just a different feeling in the halls of that school. It feels like family almost. I realized then and there, God had answered our prayers and concerns over Ashley's high school years, and I needed to give praise and thanks!

The week has in whole been just very surreal. God has answered prayers and worked in ways that have amazed Mr. T and me. I've witnessed Him move obstacles that still have me completely dumbfounded. I've seen him work in Ashley's life in some areas that are awesome. After she shared some events that have taken place this week, I thought about them and how God is so good. I know God is so working in her life. I'll end by saying that after this week and what I've witnessed firsthand, there is no denying the effectiveness of a praying/weeping mother over her child's bedroom in the quiet stillness of an empty home, pouring her heart out to God over the guidance and well being of that child. God is good all the time...All the time God is good!!!

OUTDOOR WEDNESDAY - TOMATO "TREES"

2009-08-05T08:48:00.021-04:00

Just an update on my tomato plants...headed in the direction of tomato "trees". The plants are healthy and beautiful, but we are just now getting our first tomatoes. We've had a few here and there ripen, but just last evening I harvested what will actually be the first canning. Actually, I'm thinking of passing these on to my sister for canning. We don't use Miracle Gro or anything of the sort. The only thing special we do is add Epsom salt a couple of times to supposedly prevent blossom rot, which has worked, and Mr. T likes a product called Ironite which gives plants a very strong and healthy root system.

Cherry tomato

Another cherry tomato pic. This single plant is producing so many baby tomatoes there is no way we could keep up with eating them. Hello neighbor :-), would you like a bowl of juicy ripe cherry tomatoes?
I believe this is a Better Boy plant. These pics were taken weeks back when the blooms were forming. They have grown so much more now. The plants are dropping over the top of the cages and I literally have to lift limbs, carefully, to get in to pic the tomatoes.

My daughter is 5'8", and you can see these boys were surpassing her, several weeks back when these pics were taken.

Another view of the Cherry on the right and Roma on the left.

Perfecto!
Just a small sampling of yesterday's harvest. Some still have a little ripening to go.

I certainly hope you've enjoyed these pics. I would love to share the bountiful harvest if you all were close enough. Mr. T usually takes them by the box full to work and gives them away. I'm probably not going to can any this summer...I still have so many left from last year which I need to use up. I'll probably pass these on, save for the occasional juicy BLT!

Please visit Susan at A Southern Daydreamer to see all the other participant's for OW #30. Thanks to Susan for hosting this fun event. Thanks to each visitor for stopping by today. Hope you have a spectacular Outdoor Wednesday!

HAPPY SATURDAY

2009-07-25T12:36:00.013-04:00

What a lazy day...I almost feel guilty. It is so odd not to have something planned on a Saturday, but it feels so nice. I completed all my cleaning early, and now I'm just working on a little laundry. Just wanted to say hello to everyone and wish you a happy and blessed Saturday. It is beautiful and sunny here in North Carolina, although very hot today. I've posted a few photos of some container gardens I've not shared this summer plus a couple of other flowers.

This is a palm tree, and I've planted marigolds at the base.

Sun Coleus, Purple Fountain Grass, Potato Vine, and it's hard to see, but there are white petunias in there somewhere

Old faithfuls...Impatience

Autum fern, Hosta, and Impatience

This is an update on the Mandevilla I plant each year as a screen from the eye sore of the electric boxes. You can now barely see the boxes. I've used this trick for many years. It only takes a short while for it to make its way up the trellis in a beautiful display of red blooms. I had originally shared it in a May 4th post (Barb's Porch & Patio Party) just shortly after being planted.

Sun Coleus, Dracanea spike, and Asparagus fern

Thanks for stopping by. Happy Saturday from my garden to yours! I think I'll make some fresh-squeezed lemonade and relax on the deck.

TABLESCAPE THURSDAY - LET'S LUAU

2009-07-15T20:27:00.033-04:00

Tablescape Thursday has arrived and, once again, thanks go out to our gracious hostess, Susan, at Between Naps on The Porch for hosting. Please click on the link to view other folks who are sharing this week.

Today's tablescape is from this past spring from my daughter's sleepover. At the last moment, her dad and I were ever so nudgingly able to convince her outside was just not going to work due to the cold temps. So, we had to improvise, and our dining room and kitchen became the framework for an "indoor luau." We had to scratch a few ideas, but in the end, the girls did not kow the difference. Hey, it's all in what you make of it in your mind!

Notice the cute coconut cups...they are cute, but wait 'til you see them further down!

Notice the difference in the coconut cups..we added the Hibiscus flowers which made them even more adorable.

A few goodies for chocolate fondue

We were not able to decorate the deck railing, so I talked Mr. T into using some ingenuity to use attach the skirt to our gathering table in the kitchen so as not to harm to the wood. Turned out great.

And last, but not least, what would a party be without ya sisterhood! Tata fa now...sleep tight and don't have too many pillow fights! Uh, by the way...lights out by 11 p.m...WISHFUL THINKING!

Thanks for stopping by. Don't forget, visit the link above to Susan's blog to get in on some more fun.

MOSAIC MONDAY

2009-07-13T09:57:00.008-04:00

Welcome everyone. Today is my first participation in Mosaic Monday. Thanks to Mary at Little Red House for hosting this fun event. Please remember to visit Mary's blog to view all the participants of today's fun. Check out Mary's "About Me," section which is absolutely funny but probably truthful for more of us than you might think!

I'm sharing some of the flowers from my yard this summer. When I was first married 22 years ago, I absolutely detested doing yard work or gardening, and had absolutely no desire to "grow" anything. Then, the summer following the birth of my daughter in 1995, I decided to plant a few flowers, herbs, etc., and from that point forward I have been addicted to planting, growing, pruning, and harvesting. Maybe it's the fact that working at home I'm literally attached at my hips to a computer chair all day. I not only desire to work in my yard...I need it. It is absolute therapy to my soul. I can see so much of God's grand design in all things that grow. It's as if my soul now needs this.

Genesis 1:29-30 says, "And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat. And to every beast of the earth, and to every fowl of the air, and to every thing that creepth upon the earth, wherein there is life, I have given every green herb for meal: and it was so." Genesis 2:5 points out that even with the creation of the these things, something was missing. There had been no rain for their growth, and there was, "Not a man to till the ground." Genesis 2:6 states, "But there went up a mist from the earth, and watered the whole face of the ground." Genesis 2:7 says, "And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul!" It is so clear...God intended for us to care for his beautiful creation!!

At least for me, man's formation from dirt explains some folk's insatiable need to exit from life's busy constraints and become one with the very ingredient of our existence...it works for me every time!!

Perhaps the birth of my daughter and the tiny blessing that He entrusted to me to nurture to her fullest growth potential, caused me to realize that "growing" is a good for the soul. Being a parent, as well as a gardener (amateur by definition), also reminds me that I'm not in control! Ashley is a gift from God...He is and always will be her Father! He is in control of her life...not me! Same with planting. If you ever plant something with great anticipation of its growth and it simply refuses to rain for months, or the bunnies eat all your green beans (twice), or the birds pluck every tiny corn stalk you planted out of the ground, you will quickly realize that you are not in control! Often times, your planting and growing efforts are very much at the mercy of a much grander Creator and His creations.

Thanks for stopping by. Hope you have enjoyed! If so, please leave comments. Also, remember to check out Mary's blog at the link above. My prayer is that each of you have a blessed day...and remember, give "growing" a try, you just might like it! At the very least you will be beautifying God's creation even more.

Fourth Favorites

2009-07-06T16:15:00.006-04:00

Just thought I'd share a couple of my favorite things from our 4th of July celebration.

First, is a recipe for a non-alcoholic Sangria punch...yummy, yummy!

You will need the following ingredients:

4 cups of reduced calorie cranberry juice cocktail

1 cup orange juice

2 cups white grape juice

1 cup club soda

1 tub of Crystal Light (Raspberry Ice)

Approximately 1/2 to 3/4 of a 2 liter diet ginger ale

Fresh lemon, lime and orange slices for garnish

Next, are the table decorations. The only thing I had to purchase was a pack of peppermint taffy candy that was wrapped in paper with printed flags from Wal-Mart ($1) and the flag garland from Hobby Lobby ($3.49). I had the rest of the items.

And, last, but definitely not least, my daughter's very famous flag cake. She prepares this each year complete with homemade icing, fresh blueberries and raspberries...mouth watering!

Thanks for stopping by, and don't forget...try the punch; it was a hit!

OUTDOOR WEDNESDAY - WHAT A DIFFERENCE 4 MONTHS MAKES!!

2009-07-01T08:50:00.010-04:00

Welcome to Outdoor Wednesday hosted by Susan @ A Southern Daydreamer. Thanks, Susan, for hosting this fun e vent!

The pics below were taken on March 1, 2009, 4 months to the day. It is now in the mid 90s, sweltering hot and humid here in North Carolina.

A teen's impatience at it's finest...unwilling to wait for the snow cream! Like my post title says, "What a difference 4 months makes."

Thanks so much for joining Outdoor Wednesday. Please visit Susan's blog at the link above to see all the other participants. Happy Outdoor Wednesday!! I've got to scoot...we're headed to the water park for the day.

THREE OR MORE TUESDAY - ZINNIAS

2009-06-30T09:05:00.012-04:00

Welcome everyone to Three Or More Tuesday, hosted by Tam @ The Gypsy's Corner. Please visit Tam's blog at the link above to view all the other participants' three or more treasures! Thanks, Tam, for faithfully hosting this fun event.

I'm so glad to have your company. Today, I want to share with you my beautiful zinnias. I think they fall under the category of "Three or More." Well, see for yourself. I think there are definitely more than 3 :-)

Some up close and personals...

The first winter we lived in our home, a dear neighbor, Miss Virginia, brought over a plastic container of what I thought was just dead flower heads. Miss Virginia dries her zinnias and replants in the spring each year. What a magnificent gift. The following spring I planted them just as she instructed, and wow, zinnias, zinnias, everywhere zinnias. I was hooked from that point. Now, each year in my vegetable garden there is a beautiful display of zinnias, that is if I catch the June Bugs in time. If not, it can quickly look as if the zinnias had an attack of the weed eater!!

Thanks so much for visiting. I hope you have enjoyed the zinnias. Remember, please visit Tam's blog above for more beautiful treasures.

CALLA LILIES IN REMEMBRANCE

2009-06-19T22:26:00.014-04:00

It is in honor and remembrance of Mr. T's grandmother, Mrs. Ruby S. Hill, who passed away February 7, 2007, that I write this post.

This past week I was meandering through my yard taking photos of various flowers and taking the occasional sniff of fragrance, when I noticed a bloom I had never seen in my garden. It was a Calla lily.

For Mother's day 2007, Mr. T's mom had a beautiful arrangement of flowers placed in our church in remembrance of Mrs. Hill.

Here is a pic of that basket. It was so beautiful! See the beautiful Calla lilies in the center of the arrangement?Well, Mr. T's mother gave me the Calla Lily plant out of the basket and asked if I would like to plant it. I planted it on the side of my home in the summer of 2007. It was so hot at the time I planted it, I wasn't sure it would make it. I was diligent in watering it through the hot Southern summer. In 2008, it sprang forth in the spring with bright green foliage, but it never produced lilies. I was persistent and continued my care through yet another summer.

Much to my surprise and delight, while on my recent stroll in my yard, look what I spotted...beautiful pink Calla lilies protruding from the bright green foliage. I like taking photos after a rain. The dew on the flowers and foliage is yet another reminder of God's goodness in my life. Especially after 2 years of severe drought here in NC, I feel especially blessed to have had the abundance of rain we have had this spring.

Ruby S. Hill (June 17, 1925 - February 7, 2007)

While making a trip to the cemetery this week for another dearly departed friend, Mr. T shared with me that his grandmother's birthday was June 17. I remembered the lilies blooming and thought how appropriate. Her middle name was, "Lilly." I thought to myself, "What better way to share these gorgeous lilies, than in remembrance.

Mrs. Hill, you are dearly loved and missed, but we know we have that blessed hope of seeing you once again in heaven!

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY - FATHERS

2009-06-17T08:21:00.013-04:00

Welcome to Wordless Wednesday hosted by Dixie at French Lique, Texas. Thanks, Miss Dixie, for hosting this fun event.

Be sure and visit Miss Dixie at the link above, "French Lique, Texas." Happy Wordless Wednesday!

WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!

2009-06-11T20:09:00.008-04:00

Ever heard the phrase, "When you least expect it." Sure you have, we all have...it's one of those 'ol sayings like, "You can bet your money on it." It's just been rooted in all of us at one time or another. Over this past week, however, this phrase has taken on a whole new meaning for me...or maybe just a deeper appreciation. I shared with you all several posts back about our pursuit of enrolling Ashley in a private Christian school for high school. This will be the end of our home school era, and it will be abundantly missed, but it is time for a new chapter in our little family's life. Now it is just up to Mom (me) and Dad (Mr. T) to meet the financial obligation each year, and, of course, for Miss Ashley to meet her obligation of doing HER BEST in her studies, which is all we ask.

This new financial obligation comes at a time when things are very uncertain, not just for our family, but all families. We're not on poor street by any stretch of the imagination, but things have definitely gotten our attention over this past year. We still buy things we definitely don't need from time to time, still eat out and enjoy our lives, but we have had to cut back on splurges and even say no to projects which we had planned to do here at our home. The money we have in savings, we're holding on to for dear life, that's why with this new financial obligation coming up in August, it has tested our faith more than ever before in our lives....BUT, and I say BUT, with a different demeanor this time. See, Mr. T is a worrier, I worry too about it, but he is a tight-wad worrier...so in times like this, you can imagine it gets a tad worse. In March of this year Mr. T began a new endeavor to lead a married couples' Sunday school class for 30 to 50 year olds. He has had such a heavy burden for this, and finally after months of prayer and devotion to study, he felt led to share this with leaders in our church, and so this past March was the beginning of another new chapter in our family. Through Mr. T's faithful studies, he has come to a newfound realization of how extremely important it is to stop worrying and being anxious over stuff, and more importantly, stop relying on ourselves instead of God! I have seen a completely new Mr. T emerge in these past few months, which has been spreading over to me. I have seen God work tremendously in our lives revealing his love to us and just how great He truly is!! I am so proud of Mr. T. He studies an enormous amount and truly applies his burdened devotion to it. There is something sweet and calming about sitting on my back deck late on a Saturday night and hearing the guys just a few houses down having their drinking party around the pool knowing that my man is in his office studying for his lesson on Sunday morning.

Okay, I was rambling, so now back to the reliance upon God and to the title of my post. Even with the application, interviewing, and testing process, we were at peace and trusting God. Then, the letter of acceptance came...later than expected, but it finally came, and still complete peace. No panic, no fears of how we were going to accomplish it with all this short time, none of the typical, "How are WE gonna do it," thoughts which typically overwhelm minds in times like these. All we've experienced is complete peace and trust...I cannot explain it, and I will not attempt to. It's amazing though. No lost night's sleeps, nothing...just knowing that come August we were going to pay this tuition and that would be that. Then, June 6, 2009, came. Mr. T received a call from his father the night before who stated he would like to come for a visit on Saturday. Mr. T explained that it would be our 22nd anniversary, but that we had planned to grill steaks and stay home for the evening but that he was welcome to come and visit. His dad lives in North Wilkesboro so we only typically get to see him every few months.

Saturday afternoon they were able to get in a game of golf and spend some father/son time together with his uncle/cousin. When they arrived back home I was preparing strawberries to freeze that I had purchased at our friends' strawberry farm. I needed something from the grocery store and so Eddie, my sweet father-in-law offered to take Ashley if she would show him the way and they would get what I needed. Mr. T. came into the kitchen where I was working and began humbly to tell me about an unbelievable gift his father had given him that day, an envelope of cash. We talked and my first response was that we could not accept it because we were young and healthy and able to work, and he is older and retired, and he might need it. Johnny explained that he had felt the same way when he had given it to him, but that after talking with his dad, he realized that he did not give it to us for any particular reason. He did not even know about the school at this point! He just wanted to and felt a need to! Man, talk about when you least expect it!!

The first thought that came to my mind was the tuition, and although it doesn't completely cover it, it makes a huge difference. After all, anything helps. We've been given monetary gifts by Mr. T's mother before for no apparent reason, but this time was different. Different because of our lack of worry or concern we had had over this tuition knowing that times were so uncertain right now...we were just going to pay it and be done with it. We accepted that if that was God's will for our life and Ashley's life, we would be okay.

On with the story...Ashley has been wanting new bedding for her room. Of course, changing the color scheme I knew would create having to buy all new accessories and curtains, too, and her room was terrific the way it was, a little juvenile, but still terrific. I had held off on this because of all the uncertainty with the economy right now, plus the fact that she had not really found anything she completely adored. She would like it okay, and out of just her want for something new, I felt that she was just settling. I had told her to hold off on it and when she least expected it, she would come across a set that she would completely fall for. Well, the Friday night prior, while in Home Goods, finally that special set she had been on the look out for appeared. I just could not buy it at this point for any number of reasons above, and she was completely accepting of that, no temper tantrum (she knows better), just okay, Mom. I did explain that she could purchase it with her money, but being the 14-year-old she is, the bedding quickly became last priority.

On Sunday morning, while dressing for church, Mr. T retrieved the envelope because he wanted to show me something on it. He wanted me to notice that the envelope did not read just his name, it included all 3 of our names. I just about cried. Johnny had known that Ashley had found that bedding Friday night because he was with us and heard us talking about it. See, he is the chauffeur that drives us up to the door and then picks us up with our treasures...Friday, however, was just a browse night after dinner, no treasures, just the blessing of spending time with my daughter, and, of course, our chauffeur. He explained that he wanted to give Ashley the money to buy the new things for her room. He wanted her to have a new "teenage" feel to her room with her starting high school and meeting new friends, etc. What a man!! So, after lunch Sunday, he drove us back to Home Goods in Winston. Ashley ran over to the bedding, and they still had the set for her bed, and she was ecstatic! She said, "I love it Mom, I cannot believe I finally found the perfect one." I just smiled, looked up, and replied, "When you least expected it, too." She said, "That's what you kept telling me Mom." God is awesome working things out, not when we want them, but just when we least expect them!"

FOODIE FRIDAY - ELMO

2009-06-04T19:51:00.013-04:00

It's time for Foodie Friday hosted by Gollum @ Designs by Gollum. Be sure to visit Gollum's blog to view all the other folks participating in this mouth-watering event! This is my first post to Foodie Friday. When I first made this cake, I decided it would be a good entry for FF. It's an Elmo cake which I made for my great niece's 1st birthday, Miss Isabella! She is a cutie pie...love, love, love her!!! I failed to ask permission from her mom and dad to post pictures of her, so I will just go with the cake for this post.

The cake pan was rented from a great place called Karen's Cakes and Catering. She rents all types of wedding and party items...a huge selection. She rents the cake pans for $1 for 4 days! I couldn't believe it. My daughter had this same cake for her 2nd birthday 12 years ago, but my sister-in-law made it. This time, sadly she was not available, so Auntie Crystal had to step up to the plate.

Here's Elmo fresh from the oven :-)

Okay, Elmo, I hear you. See, he's just a tad bit upset that he's naked out here in blogland. So, here he is, all dressed up and ready for the party!

He really wasn't that difficult. I learned an invaluble lesson when Ashley was 5 and I baked a Power Puff Girl cake with 20-some different colors of icing; you must have many, many, many star tips, and use disposable icing bags. Otherwise, you will find yourself washing more tips and changing icing bags than you actually spend decorating the cake!!

Now, this is not a professional job. I decorate a couple cakes a year...that's it, so try not to be too critical. Believe it or not, the hardest part is icing the white and getting it smooth in between all the body parts. The star icing tip will cover a multitude of decorating sins, so that's not too difficult.

This little baby Elmo face I decided to do on a fluke. I had so much icing left over, I decided I would keep baking. I decided to bake a standard 2-layer cake, and then I took one of the layers and cut it in half, then kept cutting and shaping the 2 sides and piecing them together until I came up with the shape of Elmo's face. I used vanilla wafers for the eyes and the nose and applied icing over top of them and then just piped the mouth in. He's so cute!
Okay folks, that's it for my first Foodie Friday. Hope you have all enjoyed Elmo. I'm heading over to Gollum's to get some yummy recipes. Happy Foodie Friday!! Again, click on the link at the top of my post, and it will take you right over to her blog. Thanks for stopping by. I love visitors and comments...HINT, HINT :-)

TABLESCAPE THURSDAY

2009-06-03T16:24:00.014-04:00

Oh goodie, it's time for that fun event, Tablescape Thursday, hosted by Susan @ Between Naps On The Porch. I kinda took a little break from bloggy land, and so I've missed more than a few of these. A great big thank you goes out to Susan for her devotion to this event. Please visit Susan's blog at the link above so you can view oodles of creative tablescapes!

The inspiration for my tablescape actually came from some 0.49 cent goblets I recently acquired while strolling through my local GW store. How do you like 'em...not bad for 0.49 cents, huh? A week or so after finding the goblets, I spotted these linens at Marshall's. Four napkins for $5.99. The only tag said "French Paisley." Placemats are red and they were a pack of 4 for $7.99

The dinnerware is the Gibson pattern seen all over Bloggyland and purchased at Big Lots, but I added a blue salad plate by Signature Housewares/Room Creative in a pattern called "Indigo." I was only able to find 5 of these at Home Goods thinking I could find more at another store or online...NOT! I so want more, but I've not even been able to find them online :-(.
The centerpiece I borrowed from my kitchen nook. I did a post a month or so ago on re-doing that area. I had purchased the pitcher and flowers from Michael's which were clearance items at the time. I thought the pitcher matched the Gibson dinnerware beautifully.

A touch of candlelight. Thanks for stopping by to visit. I hope you have enjoyed being here. I am grateful for your visits and comments. Again, be sure to visit Susan @ Between Naps On The Porch.

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY - WATER

2009-06-03T08:21:00.006-04:00

Thanks to Dixie @ French Lique, Texas for hosting Wordless Wednesday. This week's theme is wind or water...I chose water :-) Please click on the the link above to Dixie to visit other folks who are participating in this fun event.

Thanks for visiting. I've so enjoyed having your company!

29th THREE OR MORE TUESDAY - BLUE GOBLETS

2009-06-02T09:50:00.006-04:00

Thanks to Tam at The Gypsy's Corner for hosting Three or More Tuesday. Please click on the link to visit the treasures showcased by other participants.

Today, I am sharing 4 goblets which are 0.49 cent GW finds! That's right, just 0.49 cents each. They are a beautiful shade of blue. I hope to find time to do a tablescape with these beauties this week. I have some new linens that will look great with these.

Thanks to everyone for stopping by. Be sure link above to Tam's blog...I know you'll enjoy this event. It feels so good to be back blogging....I've had these cuties for weeks now and have been itching to share them. I pray that each of you have a blessed day!

BLOG TLC AND A PRAYER REQUEST

2009-06-01T23:43:00.004-04:00

Finally, after several weeks, I have been able to get in a little blog time. I apologize to everyone for being so lax about posting, commenting, and my lack of participation. I'm not about to make excuses as I know everyone's lives are hectic. Ashley is playing softball and with 2 practices and 2 games per week, all the clean up that comes with emerging from winter, family get togethers, and church commitments, it's just been very busy here. Also, I was taking a break in order to devote some time to my very personal desire to write devotions. I hope to share some of these soon. I have found a meme which I am praying will work out, and I will be able to make these devotions part of my blog from time to time.

I have finally changed my blog's clothing. So, what do you think? I still very much like the old black and red, and I will probably revert back to that come cold weather, but for summer, this just feels fresh :-)

I have missed each of you. I have peeked from time to time at some of your posts and have found some inspiring ideas. You folks are all so creative! I'm looking forward to jumping back in.

I do have one request. I have a cousin, Tonya, whom I grew up with and basically the two of us were inseparable souls. If I were not at her house, Tonya would be at mine. We vacationed together, later double dated together, we were each other's Maid of Honor. You get the picture. Sadly, at age 43 Tonya has been diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer. She received her first chemo treatment last Wednesday. I do so desire your prayers, and I know Tonya will be very grateful, as well. She is the mother of two, a son and a daughter, so please pray for these dear children as well. Thanks in advance for all your prayers.

Now, I'd better try and get some sleep...it's late, and, well trying to find a new dress for my blog was worse than trying to find a swimsuit for yours truly! I'm tired! Good night to all. May you and your loved ones have a peaceful night's sleep.

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY - MOTHERS

2009-05-06T09:27:00.011-04:00

Welcome to Wordless Wednesday (Mothers) hosted by Dixie at French Lique, Texas. Thanks, Dixie, for hosting this fun and "wordless" event. Please visit Dixie to view other WW entries.

Thanks for visiting. Happy Mother's Day!

OUTDOOR WEDNESDAY - JOSEPH'S COAT ROSE

2009-05-05T14:21:00.013-04:00

Welcome to Outdoor Wednesday. This is my first participation in this event. I have enjoyed so many other beautiful posts. This event is hosted by Susan at A Southern Daydreamer. Please click on the link for more gorgeous OW posts.

The newest addition to my garden is a climbing rose called "Joseph's Coat."

Now for the story behind the rose... Genesis 37:3 states, "Now Israel (Jacob) loved Joseph more than all his children, because he was the son of his old age: and he made him a coat of many colors."

The colors of a single bloom will vary between orange, red, pink, and yellow. Just beautiful!

The raindrops make it even more beautiful.

Thanks for stopping by for Outdoor Wednesday. I hope you have enjoyed your visit. Come back anytime. Praying you have a blessed Wednesday. Please visit Susan at a Southern Daydreamer for more delightful OW posts.

PORCH & PATIO PARTY

2009-05-04T17:34:00.039-04:00

Welcome to the Porch & Patio Party hosted by Barb at Grits & Glamour. Thanks, Barb, for hosting this great party. Please be sure and visit Barb's place at the above link to view some beautiful outdoor spaces.

Thanks to everyone for stopping by for a visit. Join me for a stroll up to my front porch.

It's a wide space, but not all that deep. We enjoy having morning coffee and breakfast in this area while watching the squirrels play around our old oak tree. There's usually a wonderful concert of Mother Nature playing as well.

This is the stroll up the sidewalk to the front entrance. This Robin's Nest garden plaque was given to me for my birthday last year by my sweet in-laws :=)

Two planters of pansies as you begin up the steps to the front door. All my pansy planters will be changed out in the next few weeks for more heat-resistant plants.

Welcome friends...please have a seat and visit for awhile. I have a sweet treat planned for you.

This is the view of the right side of the porch with the sitting area.

Another view

A welcome sign, another pot of pansies, and of course, a nice book entitled, "Small Gardens," your enjoyment during your visit!

Now, you can't stop by without having a glass of mixed berry-lime iced tea and Andes mint-topped brownies. YUMMY!

I'm glad you like them...I baked them fresh just this morning. I just had a hunch I might have a visitor or 2 today.

Another walkway up to the sitting area of the porch. This area is adorned by a lovely blue birdbath and, of course, another planter of pansies. The Hibiscus plants grace the sides of my garage. They will get very large over the course of the summer, and I love the beautiful blooms they produce. I'm not sure why these pine needles look so funky in this pic...they're actually not gray like this.

Another view

The grapevine wreath speaks for itself.

No porch is complete without ferns...now if I can keep the little birdies from building nests in them and destroying them. I'm always afraid to water them once their babies are nested.

Two adorable candle lanterns adorn both ends of the porch. They produce a wonderful glow in the evening.

Did you enjoy your sweet treat...wanna head around back to see where we'll be having dinner tonight? Great...follow me!
This is one of my herb gardens. I love growing herbs in strawberry planters. In no time these plants will almost triple in size and spill over the jar. They are so fragrant on the deck, and folks always have to inquire about the different herbs. I love pineapple sage, chocolate mint, lemon verbena....well, I love them all!

This area is a small garden up next to the house where the deck is, but the deck does not extend all the way to the house. The utilities are on this wall, and I guess the previous owners did not want to have them relocated when they built a room on and then the deck moved to this spot. When we moved here, this was nothing more than years of decayed leaves and other yard debris. I decided to plant it and make it an extension to my garden. It really only gets morning sun, so I decided on Hosta and autumn ferns. They have done great here. In fact, I had to remove one of the autumn ferns this year as it had gotten too large, and then I have kind of a Hosta green thumb....this baby is nowhere near the size it is going to get. Each year it always makes a fun conversation piece. The flag is to try and disguise the gas meter! The autumn fern will help more once all the fronds fully open.

This is just a planter of pansies. I just thought they were beautiful, so I snapped a picture! Like the front porch, all these planters are soon to get more heat-resistant plants.

Two lounge chairs...you might like a nice nap after your dinner :-)

Another view. We'll light the torches and have after dinner coffee in this area later, that is, after your nap :-)

Another planter

This is by far my most favorite planter. It is the smallest and, in fact, typically can only hold 1 small plant. With time though, the plant blossoms and just adds more beauty to the little planter. Sometimes the smallest things in life are the most rewarding!
Solar dragonfly lamps. I have 2 of these, and they glow beautifully at night. I can't wait to show them off at dark!

Oh my, I must check on dinner. I believe Mr. T has fired up the grill! We'll be having hamburger steaks with sauteed mushrooms, oven-roasted new potatoes, and a crisp salad blend of sweet baby lettuces, cucumber, carrot, green pepper, celery with homemade bleu cheese dressing, and grill-toasted garlic bread. I'm really getting hungry...how 'bout you??

This is more of the garden deck area. The Mandevilla will serve as a screen for the utility boxes. In no time, it will climb right up and disguise this unsightly, yet needful area.

Another view of the Hosta...it's well on its way.

Thanks so much for joining me today. I certainly hope you've enjoyed visiting. I know I enjoyed it immensely. On your way home, please remember to stop and visit Barb at Grits & Glamour. I can just imagine all the wonderful spaces that await us. Take care, and may your home, no matter how large or small, humble or grand, be your safe haven in this world.

There truly is no place like home. Blessings!

FLAUNT YOUR RED - MASTER BED/BATH

2009-04-30T11:01:00.034-04:00

Welcome to the much anticipated Flaunt Your Red Friday party. This is my first participation in this event. This is a party where folks flaunt their red treasures. A big thank you goes out to Nancy of Southern Lady for hosting this event. Be sure and visit the link to Nancy's place where, I warn you, YOU'LL BE SEEING RED! LOL!

My red treasure just happens to be my master bedroom and bath which is gold with lots of red accents. I'm sure I've broken every decorating rule imagineable in this room with all the faux floral, but it works for me, and I like it, so...

First, the fireplace corner. This picture is above the fireplace. As you can see, it's definitely red! The design in the background closely matches the pillows on the bed and the design in my bedding

A couple more views

A corner chair with a red throw and pillows. The chair just happens to be the 100th Anniversary chair from Thomasville Furniture and was actually built in NC! This was a replica of one of their first chairs in celebration of 100 years of business. There is a gold plate on the back of the chair indicating this with the years 1904 - 2004. This chair is special to me because many of my older family members, grandfather, grandmother, aunts, uncles, even my father once worked there. There is nothing much left in Thomasville or its surrounding community of the once prominent employer, only about 20 or more empty buildings because it is now manufactured overseas :-(

This is my side of heaven on earth!

This is Mr. T's side, of course, see me in the pic (I hate it...the big hair, so '80s, but he loves it and I'm dressed in gold, so it goes with the room, therefore it stays put).

The champagne flutes are for later.............

Nah, really they were red, so they made it into the picture. Wishful thinking...LOL!

Gotta have extra candles

Ahhh, my ultra cozy bed. This is how the red was born. I loved this bedding. It is St. Germain by Rose Tree, but it is very gold and cream. I believe it has now been discontinued. I decided the perfect accent would be red, and voila....the red room was born!

Another view.

More decorating faux pas!

A whole vase of faux peonies!

A few red accessories atop the bath cabinet

My red valance in the master bath. Okay, this is probably the biggest decorating sin of the 2 rooms...actually this is a shower curtain turned window valance. When I saw it at Kohl's several years ago, I liked the tone of the red with the gold swirls...the pic tells the rest of the story. Actually, my master bath is tiny, although there is a very beautifully tiled, very large shower. It even has the little spray jetty things. Now, you have to remember, I'm a girl from deep in the country who had very little fancy growing up, if any. I did not realize the shower had those jets when we bought the house...can you see me doing my happy dance when I turned these on for the first time...that is after my eyeballs recovered from poking my curious little blonde head right down at one and then flipping the switch! There is a walk-in closet behind that shower, and I've had my design wheels turning on that project...but I'm afraid they'll just have to keep turning....ahhh, but someday.

A few more red touches I know the cabinet is not red, but I'm still proud of it. We installed this baby just last winter. This bath originally had a pedestal sink, and it had no storage! This was a wonderful addition. My hubby didn't realize someone could get so excited over a cabinet.

Finally, the piece de resistance....the waste basket! SNORT! SNORT!

That's it for the tour of my red treasures. Thanks to everyone who stopped by! I can't wait to view the others who participated in this Flaunt Your Red party. Again, please visit Nancy at Southern Lady using the link above for more pretties! See ya soon!

Double Post for 3 Or More Tuesday and 2nd Time Around Tuesday - Lime Glasses

2009-04-28T08:28:00.017-04:00

Welcome everyone! I'm doing a double post today for the following: Please click on the respective links below and visit each of the 2 blogs. There are many more inspiring posts to view.

First, today is Three Or More Tuesday hosted by Tam at The Gypsy's Corner. Three or More Tuesday is about anything that you have 3 or more of...I learned this the hard way last week..I was a tad confused, but Tam was kind enough to leave my post, and I am grateful.

Also, today is 2nd Time Around Tuesday hosted by Diane at A Picture is Worth A 1000 Words. For this event, you can showcase any of your 2nd hand treasures.

Thanks to both of these lady for hosting these fun and much anticipated events!

My items today were found at my local Goodwill store. I am a glassaholic. I was on my way to the grocery store Sunday afternoon....I had 20 people coming for dinner. While driving to the store, I spotted a Goodwill store and my car just made a mad dash! I grabbed a buggy (have faith ladies that you are going to find a treasure), and headed straight for housewares. We have a rather small Goodwill, but I still found some wonderful treasures. I will be sharing some of them later, but today I want to share a couple of the items. First, 3 glasses I found. They are made of glass and have the cutest little lime wedges on them. Ifirst thought they were plastic for outside use. They have a lovely yellow painted rim. They are just precious. I would love to have 4, but 3 work wonderful since there is me, my husband and my daughter. I had to have them, and at .99 cent I could not pass them up.

Here are some pics where my daughter and I used them yesterday for lunch. I made lemonade smoothies with a lime wedge....very refreshing as it was approaching 90 degrees here!

Also, for 2nd time around Tuesday, the glasses qualify, as well as the flower pot you see in the pic. I'm not sure that it is a flower pot, but it is a white metal basket with a yellow handle with daisies painted on it in yellow. I thought it made a perfect backdrop for the lime/lemon glasses. I added a plant I had, 2 daisy stems from my daughter's room, and, yes, that is Bunny On A Stick you See there! I just love this little planter. It, too, was .99 cent.

Also, in the pic below from lunch, for 2nd Time Around Tuesday, the lime green chargers are from my visit to Goodwill. You guessed, they were .99 cent a piece, also. I was able to get 8 of these beauties. I don't know that I've ever seen lime green chargers, so away they came with me. They still had the Garden Ridge tags on them for $1.99. They matched the glasses beautifully!

Okay, I'm suddenly in the mood for a lemonade smoothie. Thanks to everyone for stopping by. I have enjoyed sharing my new treasures with each of you. Stop back by soon! Praying you have a blessed and joyful day!

Metamorphosis Monday - Kitchen Nook

2009-04-27T15:55:00.016-04:00

Okay, I'm a little late getting this in for Met Monday...my world has just been a little busy of late. I've managed to sneak away for a few minutes and get in a little therapy! Thanks to Susan of Between Naps On The Porch for hosting this delightful little event. Please visit the link to Susan's place for more splendid displays of metamorphical eye candy!

For my MM post, I'm keeping it simple. It really involves just a nook in my kitchen. I recently shared the minor re-do of my kitchen, and I shared this nook area. I've since come across a couple of new pieces I have displayed in this area, and I would like to share them.

This is a pic from my kitchen remodel post a couple of weeks back.

Here's a picture of now...what a difference just a few accessories made. I found the white vase at Michael's. It had been $16.99 and I got it for $7.50...yeah!! I also found these flower stems, I think they are "burgundy" daisies. I bought them thinking they were 50% off, but when I got them home and was checking over my receipt, I discovered they were not. I immediately planned to return them. Then, the oddest thing happened. See, I had not bought these to use in the vase. I liked the vase because I thought it would go well with "Gollum's China" as I've seen it referred to in Blogland (actually a Gibson pattern). Anyway, I had to go out and get them at Big Lots when I realized what a great buy they were! Okay, I'm getting off track, although the vase does match the dishes wonderfully. Okay...getting back on track, all through the evening I would pass by the vase and the flower stems on my table (the stems poking their little head out of the Michael's bag just begging for a space to call home). Well, once when passing by I got the bright idea of placing the flowers in the vase...wrong move! I immediately knew I had to find a special place for them because I just love them together. I tried them in my kitchen nook and thought they looked great! Needless to say, the flowers were never returned and remain in my kitchen nook.

I also found the cute little cookbooks at Marshall's over the weekend for $2.99 a piece, so I decided to add them to this area. They were small and the colors were perfect! I've always had a picture of my daughter in this area, but it just looks even more precious atop the cookbooks.
I hope you all have enjoyed my kitchen nook re-do. I have enjoyed sharing it with each of you. Thanks for stopping by. I'm going now to view some of the other MM posts. Hope you each have a lovely day!

I just love this nook space now.

The Sweetest, Neatest Lady!

2009-04-25T08:11:00.009-04:00

Many of you know Marty (Marty39 of A Stroll Thru Life). For those of you who do not, let me tell you about this nice lady. She was one of the first to reach out to me with encouragement and kindness when I first started blogging. I could tell in each her posts the amazing heart she had for other people. She always comes along with the most encouraging and kind words. She was recently blessed with receiving 3 new awards here in blogland. Immediately, Marty thought of others. To my amazement, she has nominated me to receive these awards, 2 of which were to be passed on to new bloggers. She also nominated 9 other new bloggers. Please visit A Stroll Thru Life, first to get to know Marty, and then also click on the links to these other 9 blogs. I have been visiting each of them throughout the morning. There are some truly talented folks out there. Each one has it's own unique character, and everyone of these folks will just make you feel wonderful reading about their lives, talents, and loves. That is what is so precious about all this. When I opened my blog last evening and saw that Marty had made a comment on one of my posts and asked me to visit her blog to pick up something she had for me, I was just about beside myself. I could not believe the kindness of this lady. Marty, thanks again, you are an added blessing to my life!!

This first award given to Marty and passed on to me and others, is called the, "Makes My Heart Smile" award. Marty, thank you, you make my heart smile!

This second award is called the, "One Lovely Blog Award." I am humbled, Marty. Again, thank you. All the blogs I have visited deserve this award!

This third award is passed on by Marty to everyone in blogland. It is the, "Lemonade Award," and is for anyone displaying an attitude of gratitude. Like Marty, I, too, think everyone I have met in blogland possesses this beautiful trait!

It is with great pleasure that I pass on the first 2 awards to someone whom I met just yesterday through Chandy. This new blogger is Ann of Hansonpatch. I just love her new blog. She has a lovely way of writing. Please visit her blog and discover another truly remarkable lady!

Again, it is with a ton of gratitude that I accept these awards. I look forward to getting to know each of you even more. You are all remarkable folks!

A Case Of The Can't Sleeps

2009-04-21T23:03:00.020-04:00

YAWN, YAWN, YAWN...yet no sleep for the weary :-( . I've wondered if it is hormones or what...something is just keeping me from sleeping. It's this nagging little feeling, this panic feeling, this feeling of dreaded doom! What could it be??? Denial, denial, denial follows yet another yawn, could it really be the fact that I've realized my Sunshine will not refer to me as her "teacher" next year! That's right, Sunshine will be re-entering school for high school this fall! High school...that just cannot be. I remember just a few days ago anxiously anticipating her arrival into this world! My, my what a fine young lady she has blossomed into. She is so smart, beautiful, and talented. It was just 5 short years ago that her father and I decided to homeschool her. She had been in a wonderful private Christian school for preschool through 3rd grade, yet it was always a dream of mine to homeschool. After much research on curriculum as well as extracurricular activities, we made the decision, submitted our intention to the state, and we were on our way! I would not take anything for these 5 years...NOTHING, NOT MILLIONS OF DOLLARS! We did not choose to homeschool to in order to shelter Ashley from the real world, quite the opposite, to adequately prepare her for the real world at an appropriate age. She has so much wisdom for just 14 years. Her values and morals are the gold standard by which all should be measured. I'm not bragging on my baby, but she is the "bomb.com," at least in my eyes. Well, maybe I am bragging. I am so thankful we have the memories of these last 5 years. She is making such good choices in friends. She loves being involved in her youth group, her choir group, and of course her sports (with her father right there co-coaching all the way). Folks, I'm not an expert on raising children. I'm definitely not even suggesting homeschool is the correct choice for every child, and I certainly don't live with my head in the clouds...I know homeschooling is many times not an option. This post is not at all about a pitch for homeschooling...it's about my life right now, where I am and what I'm feeling. I know the world in which we live often requires 2 incomes just to make ends meet. I was only able to homeschool because my job was in my home. I will say, if I can offer any advice on raising children, it would be to spend time in their life daily. Be the first to know what is going on in their world...not the last. Talk to them, encourage them. Above all, don't discourage or beat down. Don't preach, rather talk to them in a manner which engages their minds to seek out what looks wrong in a negative situation. Ask them how they think the situation could have turned out differently. Don't just say things like, "If you ever...I'll tell you what I'll do....attitude. Don't shelter them...let them see the consequences of what happens when even good people make bad decisions. Let them see clearly that fine line of decision and its ugly repercusions. Apply discipline...apply discipline...apply discipline. I didn't say beat them! Discipline is not only about spanking or time out. Multidisciplinary action may be a better term. It has been proven that children want boundaries and discipline, and they also want PRAISE! Above all, love them!. And for girls...well girls they crave love, want love, and will find love....negative or otherwise. Children are precious gifts from God. We only get one chance. Yes, everyday is new, but it is the only time that day will be lived in a child's life. I am sooo thankful for the precious life that has graced mine. I could not have written the script better. Has life been a bowl of cherries since March 21, 1995...I don't think so, far from it. It has been those cherry pit times of my life that has made me the woman I am today...not the cherry times! My husband and I were talking the other day about how most folks would not believe the trials our marriage has been through. We're not ones to hang our heads in defeat, blast negativity from a bull horn, or air our dirty laundry. I have been blessed immensely, but I honestly know deep in my soul that outside of all material things, if I had my dear husband and daughter, I could live happily and peaceful. I guess this is all just coming full circle because on April 23rd, our application will go before a board of directors for a school we have applied to for high school. I guess the reality is finally creeping in, which is now causing the insomnia. Don't get me wrong...I'm excited about the prospect of this new adventure. It's a whole new chapter in her life as well as my own, but it will be different for a little while. I am not worried about her making bad decisions or me not being present to protect her or anything like that...I would, however, worry a whole lot more if I didn't know the training that she has had. I have to let go and trust that God will take care of her, which is what I'm doing...I just wish I could get some sleep in the meantime!! Below are some pics of my Sunshine!!

This pic was taken at a Youth Valentine Banquet
Goofing off in the car

In the car again...I'm beginning to see a trend here. Worse yet, she took these pictures of herself! Lawdy, lawdy, she's beautiful. She could not have come from these loins....but she did! And, last but not least, making birthday memories with mom and dad. See, the first year I homeschooled, on her birthday which was a weekday, I made orange rolls (Pillsbury) before she awakened. I put candles in them and took them to her room with coffee and woke her up with my rendition of "Happy Birthday." Well, this set her little fields on fire, she has expected it every year since! The past 2 years it has fallen on days that her dad was home, so he was able to join in! I love makin' memories with this youngin'!

These are pics from 2008

Ashley and Mommy

Ashley and Daddy

The very famous orange rolls and coffee

Okay, I've seriously got to try and give this sleep thing another try. I'm exhausted...it's headed towards 1 a.m. Thanks for letting me ramble a little bit...okay, a whole lot. I'm sure the hormones do have something to do with all this, too, but that's just another issue to ramble about! Sweet dreams everyone!

What's On Your Wall Wednesday - My Den Walls, Or Should I Say Wall

2009-04-21T20:34:00.028-04:00

Today is, "What's On Your Wall Wednesday, once again. Thanks to our gracious host, Barb, at Grits & Glamour. Please visit her blog for more awe inspiring wall designs and treasures.

The walls I am showcasing today are actually in my den. I should say, "wall," because technically I only have 1 wall to work with in my den. See, the other walls of my den have built-in bookcases. Below you will see my 1 wall which happens to be one of my most favorite in my home. The other walls are my attempt at turning bookcases into walls. I did not want this room to become a library...I wanted it to be classy yet comfy, live-in, occasionally eat-in, kick your shoes off, read a book, take in a movie, a nice nap family room. Come on along, let's see how I've done.

This is my my main, and well only true wall in the den. It is 12'3"high, and also contains the fireplace, so I knew it was going to take a large piece of art and accessories for balance. The wall color in this room is Ralph Lauren Gold 4. That's right, "Gold 4." The inspiration for my entire home's wall colors (except for my kitchen, laundry and baths) came from a Ralph Lauren paint sample card with 4 colors, "Gold 1, Gold 2, Gold 3, and Gold 4, each one darker variations of gold. I only used Gold 2 through 4. I wanted my colors to flow through the house, and knew these would work well with the other colors of decorations I had planned for all these rooms.

I just love this pictures, the deep colors, almost tuscan, but I also love hydrangeas!

I added green and burgundy hydrangeas to the mantle to accent the hydrangeas in the picture.

The picture is large, 43 x 37 and is perfect in this spot!
This pic shows the gold color better. Some of the other pics have dulled the gold color. I guess it's the lighting. These next photos are of the bookcases which I have attempted to create little mini walls. I removed some of the shelving in areas to create larger areas to work with.

Here's a pic on a small wall
And some planters which are on very small walls in the room
That's it for the walls of my den/family room. I love this room. God has truly blessed my life! This is where the majority of the "living" goes on in our home, especially in the winter. I hope you all have enjoyed touring these walls. I'm off to Grits & Glamour to see what others have showcased this week. Thanks so much for taking time to stop by. Come back and visit soon. Have a wonderful day!

Three or More Tuesdays - Tin Flower Caddy

2009-04-21T08:06:00.013-04:00

YIPPEE...my first post to Three or More Tuesdays. Thanks Tam for hosting this event so we can showcase our treasures. Please visit Tam at The Gypsy's Corner to see other's treasures.

I am so excited over my new find. I have been seeing these tin/metal flower caddies adorning doors all over Blog land. I wasn't even on the hunt for one when I came across this treasure. Work was slow yesterday, so my daughter and I headed for the Thomasville Emporium. Now this place is an absolute treasure chest. There are aisles and aisles of antiques of all kinds, dishes, toys, housegoods, clothing, reading material...you name it, they have it. It had been several years since I had visited them, and wow what a nice rainy Monday surprise. They have a darling little cafe in the back, and while we were waiting on our homemade chicken salad served on fresh baked bread, tomato Florentine soup (for me), and cream and broccoli (for Ashley), I made a second stroll through one of the vendor's booths, looked down, and there it was...the treasure I had been admiring on many of your blogs.

Here she be...(it just looks like a she!)

Isn't she just dandy...I even love the little paint chips. I think they add to the 2nd time around character and remind me of the wonderful price tag of $8! I had the flowers and greenery. I had bought these in a shop in Blowing Rock several years back. There is the most wonderful little shop there that sales all things faux flower. They have some of the most realistic flowers and greenery I have ever seen. They are expensive, but so worth it. I love these flowers. I have a huge bunch of them. I have been on the lookout for the perfect dishes to do a tablescape. So, I popped the greenery in, then decided it still needed some color, so I added the flowers. I added this pomegranate sachet because the colors worked beautifully. Plus, each time I pass by, I experience the most wonderful scent...kind of like fresh flowers! I'd say this is a lovely addition to my home for just $8 plus a few things I already had! Not bad for a rainy Monday morning. The best part is, when we left the Emporium, the rain had ceased, the sun was shining and continued throughout the day!
Thanks for stopping by, and remember, please visit Tam at the Gypsy's Corner. There is a link above. May you each have a blessed and sunshiney day!

I had been on the lookout for something for this door which leads from my kitchen into my pantry and laundry room area. It just always seemed naked. I had always decorated it for Christmas, but not through the rest of the year. </p>

TABLESCAPE THURSDAY - BIRTHDAY BREAKFAST

2009-04-15T09:03:00.024-04:00

TABLESCAPE THURSDAY
Welcome to TT at Home Is As Close As a Robin's Nest. Thanks to Susan for hosting this event, once again. Please visit Susan at Between Naps On The Porch for more beautiful tablescapes.

Today's tablescape was supposed to take place on my front porch, but due to the uncooperative weather in NC, April is an iffy time. Besides, it was barely April...it was the first weekend. It had been warm and beautiful the Friday morning prior, but Saturday morning was a different story. I had planned to prepare a special breakfast for my hubby whose birthday was the following Wednesday. He leaves each morning by 5:30 a.m., so I decided Saturday would work best. Of course, I had all my pretties planned out, but then the weather did not cooperate. It was a beautiful sunny morning, just too chilly for the porch. Johnny, the sweet man that he is, knew I was a little bummed by the weather, so I have to give him credit in this tablescape. He offered to move my little front porch table into my living room so that we could bask in the sunlight coming in through the bay window, and I could still "tablescape" it as planned :-)

Sorry for the sunlight...it was bright. Plus, I probably need to take a photography course :-(

Some of you are saying, "What's that in the background, did she have the TV on?" No, no, girlfriend. What a mood killer! This was a nice surprise my husband thought of. I had made the remark that it was nice, but we still would not be able to hear the birds chirping. He remembered we had a Forest Piano Relaxation CD. So, to my surprise, he slipped it in the DVD player so I would have my birds in the background! Can you imagine the surprise on my face when I rounded the corner with his coffee. He is the best. The theme for my table was apples. So I made a centerpiece of Granny Smith and Red Delicious apples. On the menu were fresh-baked apple dumplings (compliments of Pepperidge Farm..hey, I baked them, even brushed them with egg whites and added a little sugar), my version of eggs benedict, fresh strawberries, and, of course, being from NC, grits prepared with heavy cream. YUM, YUM! Of course, Ruby Red Grapefruit juice (his favorite) and fresh-ground coffee.

The glasses have what I believe to be crab apples on them. These were given to me by my oldest sister several years ago.

I love the little green mugs I found at Home Goods several years ago. They have delicate little lace work on the footed-bottom. They are marked on the bottom with a little cafe' scene and say, "Le Petit Cafe." Adorable!

It was just a precious morning. Our daughter even slept in (duh, she is 14). She pretended she was sleepy, but we really think she wanted us to have our time alone. She is precious!! We have taught her the importance and beauty of creating time in your marriage to do special things with one another, and it is rewarding to see that she has been paying attention. Of course, when she finally arose, we had coffee in the living room with her while she had her breakfast.

What else can be said, it was the perfect morning...

Thanks for stopping by. I pray that each of you have a blessed, sunny, and warm spring day.

TABLESCAPE THURSDAY - DUCKS ALIVE

2009-04-07T22:09:00.047-04:00

It's Tablescape Thursday. A special thanks to

Susan at http://betweennapsontheporch.blogspot.com/2009/04/welcome-to-33rd-tablescape-thursday.html

for hosting this exciting event. Please click on the link to view more beautiful tablescapes.

The inspiration for this tablescape came from a plastic chocolate mold I purchased some 18 years ago. I had originally purchased this duck mold and made little chocolate ducks for my co-workers as Easter gifts. Recently while in the attic, my daughter found the mold and asked about it. I can't believe in all her 14 years I have not made chocolate ducks with her! Typically, Easter is all things rabbit, but this year I'm quacking things up a bit. You might say I'm getting my ducks in a row, or in the case of my table, in a circle :-)

Here is the little ducky table.

Yes, these little duckies are solid chocolate. Hey, stop that, yes, they are delicious, but don't you even think about it! I'm watching you....remember moms have eyes you never knew existed.

The plates and cups are from Home Goods. They are great for this time of year and for fall tables. The glasses were bought at Pier 1 probably 3 years ago.

Here's mommy duck watching over her babies. Look at all the goodies 'round about them.She's thinking they're going to spoil their dinner :-(

Grandma must have been busy baking Easter cookies!

Of course, no Easter table is complete without jelly beans :-) YUMMY!

Three ducks are better than one...uh, that is how that saying goes isn't it???
I guess these "Happy Easter" pots were meant to be candle holders or maybe planters. I bought them at Hobby Lobby at 50% off ($2.75). I wanted something more whimsical than candles, so I found these giant lollipops at Wal-Mart, placed styrofoam in the candle holder, and then the lollipop, added the grass, and this is what it looks like.

The little cone-shaped sugar-filled (drink mix) on the side of each plate, I found at Wal-Mart as well.

Finally, here's how the duckies were born.

Of course, having the duckie mold is useful (ya think??). I bought the yellow chocolate wafers at Hobby Lobby. I had recently made penguin succers for a womens' retreat at the beach, so I already had the orange wafers. They were adorable, too, the penguins that is. Anyway, back to the duckies. You simply melt the wafers in the microwave at 50% power. The first step is to use a food/craft paint brush and paint in the beak and the eyes on both sides of the mold. Then, place the mold in refrigerator and let the chocolate harden. Next, you actually have to tape the two sides of the mold together matching up the notches. Melt the yellow chocolate wafers and pour into the mold (it helps to have 2 people, one to hold the mold and one to do the pouring, but being the resourceful woman I am, I have found a way around this). Once you pour the melted yellow chocolate in the mold, place in the refrigerator until they are solid. Then simply remove the tape and pop the sweet little duck out. I then take a small sharp knife and gently grind off any of the rough seam edges where the ducks were molded together. I haven't seen the molds around anywhere in a long time. Like I said earlier, I bought mine probably 18 years ago.

I certainly hope you have enjoyed my sweet duckie table. I will miss these little guys once I take this tablescape apart, but I am sure I can find a precious niece and nephew who will love them! Thanks for stopping by. I'm going to waddle and quack my way over to Susan's at Between Naps On The Porch. Come on, any of you ladies who have had kids know the waddle walk!

Fruity Frenzy

2009-04-04T20:42:00.041-04:00

It's Metamorphosis Monday and once again, thanks to Susan for hosting. Please visit Susan at http://betweennapsontheporch.blogspot.com for more inspiring transformations.

Fruity Frenzy is another name for my ex-kitchen. When we first moved to this home, the previous owners had recently replaced the flooring, countertops, backsplash, stove, and wallpaper. Oh, but there was fruit everywhere. The worst part though was the walls which were painted "hot pink" from the chair rail down. That's right, it was a beautiful color, but it was definitely not meant for a kitchen. It was so pink in that room, we were not sure what color the flooring or the countertops were because the walls were reflecting so much pink into the room. Because we had to completely gut one of the bathrooms, we were not able to do much to this room. The cabinets had been custom made when the home was originally built and were in like-new condition and very solid, and even though they were not the maple that I had so hoped for, they were going to become my new cupboards. As you can see from the pictures, it wasn't a bad kitchen, it was just rather on the fruity side which I felt dated the kitchen. It is a great space and has lots of room. The only thing I really got to do was paint the "hot pink" walls with a nice green color, replace the dishwasher, and buy a new refrigerator. It is an eat-in kitchen, and I had been eyeing a nice little wicker table and side wine rack at Pier 1, so I decided this would work great for the space. And, it did, for a while.

This is the view looking back at the dining room. See all the little fruit. What's worse, I hung a picture of fruit on the wall. I was actually attempting to use a large picture to cover up some of the fruit. Come on, what was I supposed to use, a picture of roses??? LOL

This is the opposite view.

On a whim one Saturday, I decided to remove the wallpaper. I knew if I just started, we would be forced to complete. I had the problem of the walls solved. I had already chosen a paint color. A larger problem was the fruit tiles speckled throughout the tiled backsplash. I just needed to convince that sweet man of mine that the individual fruit tiles could be removed without re-doing the entire backsplash. After a little hesitancy, he agreed to give it a try, and it turned out not to be too difficult. He simply replaced the fruit tiles with the existing bone-colored tiles. It made a huge difference. It was no longer so busy. The fruit was beautiful, but it was so confining. The bone-colored tiles are so much more neutral.

Here's the new kitchen

This is a platter I purchased at Home Goods just to add a punch of color.

We also tiled the backsplash which had been wallpapered on the wall the refrigerator was on. The previous owners had simply wallpapered this backsplash area.My next goal was to talk him into replacing the stainless steel sink with a shiny new cast iron I had found that Kohler made. Again, he didn't resist. See, I waited until the dead of winter and knew he was bored. He even suggested we tour some kitchen showrooms to be sure I had found the perfect one. Wrong move, sister!! This is a girl who visited a half dozen or so Christmas tree farms and still could not pick out a tree. I don't do well when I am given too many choices. Finally, after 2 months passed of indecision and searching, I knew I had to make a decision...spring was approaching fast and he was already shining the golf clubs! Once I decided on the sink and faucet, and finally received it, it was a Saturday project, and turned out just perfect. I loved my new sink. I also purchased the wire rack, cutting board, and drain basket which especially comes in handy for small clean-up jobs.
During the Christmas season, I discovered I just did not have enough countertop space or working room for all the baking, etc. I had previously seen what was termed a "gathering table" and I began to do some research on these. I finally found the perfect one. I decided to on a black table in contrast to the stained cabinets. The tabletop, however, is stained a darker color. I wasn't sure it would even look right in the kitchen, so we brought it home a little hesitantly, set it up and immediately loved it. It even has a removable leaf to make it smaller, but the kitchen was able to adequately accommodate it, so we leave it in. You won't guess where I found the one I fell in love with...BIG LOTS!! That's right. It's very sturdy. We had looked at some higher end furniture stores even, but this was my favorite by far. Some of the way higher priced ones had spindly-looking little legs. When I am cooking and entertaining, we can leave the chairs or remove them, and I have plenty of space to work and there is plenty of space for folks to gather around. It has been one of the best things I've done to this house, that is for the usability factor, not necessary aesthetically. Here's another view. I had the placemats which I had used on my wicker table. The napkins and napkin rings I had purchased on clearance from Pier 1 probably 3 years ago and put them with the rest of my table linens and had forgotten about them. I originally had the vase with the eucalyptus stems on the bar that I call the "honey hand me window" which passes down to the den. I decided to use them on the table. The size of the table needed a large centerpiece for balance. It truly made a difference.
Now for the "honey, hand me..." window. This is actually where a double window originally was in the kitchen before the den and office addition. I sometimes would like to close it off, but in the winter when the fire is burning in the den, (it is an elevated hearth in a sunken den, so the fire is almost level with this opening. Anyway, I decide it just looked naked. The table was no longer placed up next to it, so I decided to give it some character. I went to Hobby Lobby and bought this fabric and trim. I sewed the trim on, did my measuring and leveling, bought and hung the rod, draped the fabric, and WOW, what a difference. This is probably one of my most favorite projects of the room because I actually did all the planning, prep, sewing and work.

Some new art
All in all, the new kitchen turned out wonderful, and I am once again a very blessed woman!

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LUNCH WITH PANSIES

2009-03-31T18:03:00.059-04:00

Welcome to Tablescape Thursday

This table setting is a little different than what I have used in the past with this china pattern. Once I decided to participate in Tablescape Thursday, I knew I would be setting a spring table, so I decided immediately on the china, but I wanted to accent a color besides pink, which is what I typically do. While looking at the pattern to decide what color I would accent, and I immediately thought of the pansies I had leftover from a week or so earlier. I decided to plant the pansies in this white ceramic Easter basket my mom gave me the first Easter I was married. Yes, she still made us Easter baskets after we were married. So, this basket has a special place in my heart.

Since the basket is not that large or deep, the pansies worked just wonderfully.

The china is by Johnson Brothers, and the pattern is Summer Chintz. It works well this time of year for Easter, Mother's Day, or just Sunday lunch. Remember, I grew up with a very humble upbringing to say the least, and after I was married I used to drive over to this store called "Thalhimers" on Saturdays, and I would go to the china department and just drool over this china pattern. I never thought in a million years I would ever have it at my table. I did not pick a china pattern when I was getting married because it just was not part of my upbringing. My mother-in-law, being the sweet lady she is, decided one Christmas she would start a china pattern for me, which she and others could give me for Christmas, birthdays, etc. I knew immediately what I would choose.

I wanted to add some more pansies to the table since the centerpiece was fairly small, so I thought of a recipe I use for petit fours and decided I could use fresh pansies instead of making icing pancies!

I admit though, I cheated for the sake of time. I used good 'ol Sara Lee poundcake and also skipped the petit four icing that I typically pour over top. I did, however, make homemade buttercream icing, and they were still delicious.

I bought these goblets at World Market several years ago. I bought them in purple, green, gold, and red.

Pansies are so adorable

I think the dainty cups and saucers are precious.

I also bought these little spoons at World Market last summer. Teaspoons simply overpower these dainty little cups, so when I saw these, I knew they would be perfect. I know they don't match the other silverware which is a Lenox pattern (don't ask me the name), so those of you who are sticklers for that kind of thing, please forgive me.
Thanks for stopping by. Thanks to Susan for hosting Tablescape Thursday. Please visit Susan at http://betweennapsontheporch.blogspot.com/ for more beautiful tablescapes.